He's not really obsessed, he's 14, I'm 17, and he has had a crush on me since I was 14 when we moved in next door to them.
I was taking care of his dog this weekend while his parents were gone, and he was SUPPOSED to be at his friends house. He came home and started talking to me, I'm always very nice to him, but then he started getting flirty. I'm pretty used to it. He has ALWAYS been like that.
Anyways, he sat on the couch next to me and tried to kiss me. I told him "Leo, you're way to young for me, I think your sweet but I cant think of you like that. I used to babysit you." I tried getting up, but he's bigger than me now and he kissed me.
His mom walked in the door while this was happening NOW WHAT AM I GOING TO DO? I have talked to him and he told me that he knows I dont think of him that way, he just really wanted to kiss me. I told him it was okay, but just to forget about it and not to do it again.
I feel so uncomfortable around his family now though.
2006-11-04 19:30:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a sister his age but he isnt into her. I dont know what to do, he's a cutie, but I just cant look at him that way because I used to babysit him!!
If I were his age then I would like him, but I dunno. I dont want to ruin our frienship/whatever type of relationship we have
2006-11-04 19:42:36 · update #1
First of all, don't encourage him. The fact that he's bigger than you is also a little disturbing. Let your parents know what going on and then talk to his parents. Tell the parents that you are extremely uncomfortable around him and what happened. If you've known that he's had a crush on you for so long then you should not have let him flirt with you. The fact that you let him get away with it lets him think that you liked it. He's only 14, so to him it seems okay bacause you haven't said otherwise. Don't do anymore favors for them and try not to talk to him. I know he lives next door but you can still put some distance between you two.
2006-11-04 19:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My neighbor does this too. He mows his backyard 4-6 situations per week. he's continually accessible even in....Thundering, raining, lightening, hailing and so on! The grass is not in any respect up in CO and he's already mowing. He led to a mud typhoon to blow contained in the air. in the course of the fall he would upward push up 5 am and blow his leaves into our backyard! lots of the time he received't enable his dogs to go bath room in his backyard. His dogs use my backyard, the part walk and the driveways. i imagine he might want to quite like is backyard or have not something more effective perfect to do.
2016-11-28 19:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leo is very high in hormones. can you find a friend for him so he can let himself infatuate with another girl?? It is hooriible being a male at that age, since you only thing of one thing, you know. Is he so ugly , he can't be your guy. Think about how much he cares for you. I'm a guy and men not only think of sex, but also intimacy and emotional bonding. I am not saying let him do what he wants. But i was there, and I really wanted to be a girl with no desire. Play sports with him and get him tired. Kick him in the balls. He won't be so turned on then.
2006-11-04 19:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fourteen could be quite confusing.
But still a "no" means a "no" and you should have a friendly chat with his mum to inform them about the incident in the right perspective.
Be careful that you do not turn into a passive experiment for this 14 year old kid.
2006-11-04 19:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya know what your problem is too simple and ya don't have to worry that much.. if you say something to him just prove it or mean what you say.. so he knows that he wont make fun of you.. tell him that you only treat him as like your younger bro and you dont feel anything bout him.. and explain everything bout what happen or when his mom caught you in the act. if his mom don't believe you don't worry. what important is you've explain to her what happen.
2006-11-04 19:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by vodka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll get over you eventually, but you can e-mail me to get him off of your mind i turn 18 in a month and have not met any friends here yet
2006-11-04 19:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by Aaron m420 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by u been nice he might interpreted different. u should say something like umm I don't think my boyfiriend will like that comment very much
2016-01-01 13:18:17 · answer #7 · answered by curly85grad03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two need to talk things out. no matter HOW odd it feels.
2006-11-04 19:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by coolbabe1959 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a mercy *****...get it out of his system
2006-11-04 19:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by Sam G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you have to tell his mother exactly what's been going on to clear the air.
2006-11-04 19:33:25 · answer #10 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋