Singles & Dating - 1 November 2006

I'm 36 should I start looking to get married? I enjoy my life the way it is. I fish whenever I want and no one tells me what to do. I would also like to have 2 beautiful kids, I just don't want to be kepted prisoner. I would real hate to not be able to do the things I enjoyed while singal.

2006-11-01 06:36:31 · 19 answers · asked by Just Me 2

i am really really trying, but i cant seem to get over the fact that my ex is pregnant by another guy. she was seeing another while still acting like we had a relationship. just the fact that she was having sex with someone else fumes me to no avail. plus the fact that she lied to me. i cant even put into words how angry and seething i am. and the worst thing is , she told me online. not even to my face or a phone call. and why even tell me at all. like i wanted to know that she was pregnant by another guy!! and keeping me thinking that we had a relationship. damn, how scandelous can a person get. and whats even worse, i think i still love her. she's all happy, having a baby and im here played out like a total fool and idiot and another guy is having her child. they probably laughing at me like i am a fool or something. taking another guys woman and having a kid with her. and she let it happen. man i got played out bad. i never cheated once. why all the lies??

2006-11-01 06:36:25 · 12 answers · asked by jjrr98 1

On a scale of 1-10 I'd give myself a 8 for my looks, for my personality I'd give myself a 10 because I'm nice(way too nice it seems), funny and outgoing.

2006-11-01 06:35:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was dumped and then found out it was for her to date others, and it happened right away for some guy at her work. she told me it was to be alone and not be with anyone. i feel lied to and decieved. when i found out i stopped being buddy buddy with her and even sent her stuff that i had back to her, no note, nothing. she doesn't know i know. as hurt as i am i struggle with should i call and tell her i know and how she hurt me or should i just let it go? in the relationship i was a huge support system for her and now i feel like she totally disrespected me and what we had.

2006-11-01 06:35:57 · 2 answers · asked by MARK M 1

Me and my boyfriend love each other dearly. We are together everyday and every night. Problem is as heard as we love is as hard as we fight. We don't fight often but when we do it turns into an all out screaming match and sometimes my boyfriend will push me down and throw me into doors or walls and call me names. I admit sometimes I throw a punch back but its only after he's brought me that far to the point. Is our relationship unhealthy?

2006-11-01 06:33:19 · 31 answers · asked by Jaime P 2

He has talked about it, and a few days ago, said he had a package coming that he had to get, and then said he might just wait until January (our one year anniversary), but, I am not sure. Any suggeestions if you think he is. If so why, and what are some other things I can look for, and maybe figure out, and get him to crack and give it to me!!!

2006-11-01 06:33:07 · 10 answers · asked by Nicole 1

Last night I brought a man home who happens to be a military boy. Really cute. I know it is wrong for wanting him to come home with me. Other then him being somewhat of an arrogant a#* Hole. I stopped him in the middle of the deed and told to him go home. I was getting somewhat pissed of the fact that he was making me do all of the work to please him and he wasn't even acting at all grateful or even trying to get me all hot and bothered. So it wasn't really worth anymore of an effort. So I stopped and told him to go home. I don't want to see him again. It was more of a waisted night. Was I in the wrong?

2006-11-01 06:32:19 · 11 answers · asked by kitty kitty 3

how many of you like the NAME sapphire i was just wondering because that is my name

2006-11-01 06:31:20 · 24 answers · asked by sapphire 3

Is it harmless?

2006-11-01 06:31:16 · 17 answers · asked by Lisa 2

i am really really trying, but i cant seem to get over the fact that my ex is pregnant by another guy. she was seeing another while still acting like we had a relationship. just the fact that she was having sex with someone else fumes me to no avail. plus the fact that she lied to me. i cant even put into words how angry and seething i am. and the worst thing is , she told me online. not even to my face or a phone call. and why even tell me at all. like i wanted to know that she was pregnant by another guy!! and keeping me thinking that we had a relationship. damn, how scandelous can a person get. and whats even worse, i think i still love her. she's all happy, having a baby and im here played out like a total fool and idiot and another guy is having her child. they probably laughing at me like i am a fool or something. taking another guys woman and having a kid with her. and she let it happen. man i got played out bad. i never cheated once. where is the justice?

2006-11-01 06:30:27 · 7 answers · asked by jjrr98 1

Me and my b/f are always discussing this issues i feel its ok,he doesnt ...im interested in knowing what other ppl feel about this subject are you for or against it??? And Why? ( you better have a good explination if you're against it!!)

2006-11-01 06:30:24 · 28 answers · asked by JeN 1

So, me and my man have been together for awhile, it's pretty serious and all that but it seams like things are falling apart. Yesterday I told him that I didn't know if our relationship was working out and he reacted ok, he was sad and all...so we spent the rest of the day together and it was like he was 100 times more attentive and considerate that he usually would be. He asked me to stay the night at his place so I did and the next morning when he was getting ready for work I told him that I thought we should try and work it out and he said, "ok, great" and he acted kind of pissed off when he left for work, he only gave me a kiss on the cheek and made our goodbye really short. I am wondering if he is ready to call it quits condidering two nights before this he didn't call at all and the next day he said he forgot cuz he went hunting with his friend, am I just being paranoid or what?

2006-11-01 06:29:52 · 13 answers · asked by MJ 2

i feel like i shouldnt have cause now he doesnt like her ,and she was the one that hooked us up. occasionally i call her for advice so she knows things that me and him have had problems with. well one day she just for no reason threw one thing up in my face out of nowhere, and i confronted him on it and when he asked me where did this come from , i said my girlfriend was saying this, and he says she should mind her business . i feel like i shouldnt have said anything , but i feel like she shouldnt throw these things up in my face for no reason either. i mean i went to her for advice not to throw something back up in my face when things are perfectly fine with me and him and make me mad at him again for no reason. what do you think

2006-11-01 06:29:23 · 5 answers · asked by LISA M 3

Ok there's this dude that I like. We used to talked in 9th grade but then we went to different highschools. We recently met up and started talking again. We use to talk all the time on the phone and now everytime I try to call him he either does answer the phone or says he will call me bac but he never does. And last week I wrote him a serious poem about me and him and since then he has not talked to me. But we weren't going out. So wat should I do. Hurry help me out!!

2006-11-01 06:28:13 · 15 answers · asked by juicy 2

well people been telling me not to trust my bf fully because just like any other man, he will cheat on you to find a solution.

Well, i found a txt message session him and some hoe had and also a voicemail that she gave him on his cell. I approached him about it and beat his a*s*s all over the damn room. he had blood coming from all parts of his face, but he still apologized about it and says that he did it because he feels that him and i dont have good communication. I let him know that if he is always gonna run to another hoodrat for comfort when him and i are mad at each other then he can just go do that. So, I kicked his a*s*s out the apartment and tossed his s*h*i*t off the balcony, and we live on the 4th top floor. I told him not to come back and i am changing the locks.

Did i do the right thing people? Let me know what yall think about this and if you think we can still resolve our problems. Also, he didnt really cheat, he was talking to another chick. still matters?

2006-11-01 06:28:01 · 12 answers · asked by yagurlbubblez 3

what are you suppose to do when you like a guy but there is a language problem and you realy like him ?????? help please!!!!

2006-11-01 06:27:36 · 11 answers · asked by penut 1

Sexually? There must be something inside the ear canal that stimulates the juices.. any other women experience this?

2006-11-01 06:27:22 · 7 answers · asked by sneakyfker 3

by the way

2006-11-01 06:27:22 · 14 answers · asked by Angad 4

I have a couple of female friends who Im ok with. Ok it seems at first we are gonna be mmore than friends but I meet their parents, who seems to love me and suddendly Im put in the friend box. I know I was taught manners and all, and I get along with some of their parents so well , I cant help it moms beat manners into me . I dont mind meeting parents either they usually like me so much that they ask about me a lot. .
Suddendly after that, Im put into the friends box and rarely get called.
My question is this is it a negative for a guy to be liked by a girls parents weather its friendship or dating? I thought it was a good thing for parents to like a guy

2006-11-01 06:26:31 · 11 answers · asked by Arthur D 3

Who hates being in relationships with control freaks who are
paranoid? I once dated this girl Lilly who very got upset If I
didn't e-mail her or call her for 2 days I'd get the third degree why didn't you call me? where were you? were you seeing another Woman? when I explained I was working she still
wasn't satisifed she went on and on questioning me for nearly
a whole hour and she did that all the time it drove me nuts.

The relationship ended badly she ended up cheating on me how's that for an irony?!

2006-11-01 06:24:21 · 9 answers · asked by markm 4

ok this guy i like, i finally approched him n told him i liked him. so he gave me this hole story about ur younger than me i only mess with females that are at least 20 buy the way im 17 he's 19 so im like well if u feel like thats a problem then dont take my number n there wont b any hard feelins he was like give me ya number imma call u so i gave him the number this was sunday that night around 8 he called n when he called i heard him tellin his friend about the situation, but after that he never brought it up again we talked 4 like 2 or 3 hours that night. so i dont know where this could b going someone please help.

2006-11-01 06:24:18 · 22 answers · asked by ASHLEY S 1

2006-11-01 06:23:57 · 15 answers · asked by lizzie 2

Shouldn't you be okay with having sex on the first date.

I have said time and time again that love is something that builds over time. But a lot of people tell me that sometimes with love “you just know.” Okay, if that is true why don’t more of these people sleep with their love at first sight people when they first meet them. What reason are they waiting for if they already know they are in love?

Opinions?

2006-11-01 06:22:50 · 26 answers · asked by Place holder 3

that some of you just take it so seriously? I'm "falling to pieces" here...

2006-11-01 06:22:42 · 20 answers · asked by sneakyfker 3

2006-11-01 06:18:06 · 40 answers · asked by I'm single wanna mingle? 1

when I cannot but keep on thinking about the intimacy my bf shared with his ex-es. It's driving me nuts. He says he is mentally not involved with them, but cares for them. But he is cold and silent to me too.

2006-11-01 06:17:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-01 06:17:25 · 12 answers · asked by simon s 1

I finally approached this man( he's a doctor) that I have interest in and told him how I feel. He said that we would talk about it tonight now i'm scared because I don't know if the feelings are mutual. However, I believe that they are. Because I spend time with his children. He buy gifts for my children. He gives me money. We spend time together with our children. He calls for no apparent reason but we never crossed the line. He is single and i'm single. However, he has been divorced for only 2 years so I don't know if he ready to date. Also, he has full custody of his children and like I sai he is a doctor so his schedule is full. What should I do?

2006-11-01 06:17:22 · 6 answers · asked by NEET29 2

2006-11-01 06:16:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Ex-boyfriend loves me and still wants to sleep with me! I am going out with someone else and I am happy with him. My ex hangs around my house and loves to touch me in anyway possible. My ex constantly asks me if I love him,and if I want to sleep with him! I like him as a friend and tell him this frequently. He says he's the happyest when he is with me but I also make him unhappy because of the things I do and say! I still care about him as a friend, and I don't want to hurt him. please help me and sugest what to do!

2006-11-01 06:16:37 · 13 answers · asked by choirgirl_sarah 2