I finally approached this man( he's a doctor) that I have interest in and told him how I feel. He said that we would talk about it tonight now i'm scared because I don't know if the feelings are mutual. However, I believe that they are. Because I spend time with his children. He buy gifts for my children. He gives me money. We spend time together with our children. He calls for no apparent reason but we never crossed the line. He is single and i'm single. However, he has been divorced for only 2 years so I don't know if he ready to date. Also, he has full custody of his children and like I sai he is a doctor so his schedule is full. What should I do?
2006-11-01 06:17:22 · 6 answers · asked by NEET29 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't be all over the man like a cheap suit, but if I were you I would let it fall where it falls. If he is interested, then why not? I have a couple of close friends, and they just happen to be doctors also. You need to drop the doctor thing, and treat him like you would any other man. He may work a lot, and have a lot on his mind, but believe me he doesn't want you to make a big deal out of his profession. He's not some sort of arm candy here is he? If that is the case, then you need to forget about it. Believe me; they just want to be treated like anyone else, and they hate talking about medical things when they don't have to. This is one of the reasons they don't pursue many women, as if all one has to talk about involves medical issues, then they won't to run the other way. My friends and I used to go to the horse track and drink beer. My other friend is also a minister, but he likes to go four wheeling in his jeep. They are just people like us, and when one learns to respect that; they can then let loose and be the real person they truly are. I hope I'm making sense here. They may have a full schedule, but they also need someone they are best friends with to come home to. If you are already good friends, then you are on the right track. If he is intersested in a relationship, he will make his move, but he is just cautious, as all doctors are. Hope this helps. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-01 06:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you mention that he's been divorced for ONLY 2 yrs. How does that matter? And if it does, then how long have you been single? Since you spend time together, that would be a strong indication he's 'ready' to date. He may not be ready to marry, if that's what you mean. Continue whatever you're doing, if it meets the needs of you both. I expect he'll let you know tonite, where he's coming from. Simply listen with open ears. You dont need to make any decisions yourself..........or agree to his either. Use your head. This is the real world, not the END of it.......And you DO have choices!
2006-11-01 06:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is willing to work it out with you and talk to you and that is a good sign. Just be open and honest about your feelings and let him be the same. Even if he says he doesnt want to date right now, you will at least know his feelings on it and the reason for it. And knowing that (even if it ends up not being what you want to hear) is better than trying to guess about it all the time.
2006-11-01 06:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by katybeth212001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's doing the responsible thing and letting you make the first move. It would be inappropriate for an MD to make advances towards a patient, but not so much if a patient initiated the contact. He sounds like a nice guy and you sound like you understand the rigours of his proffession. Go see your doctor and enjoy yourselves!
2006-11-01 06:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HES A DOCTOR SO HE MAKES GOOD MONEY AND IT SEEMS LIKE HE LIKES YOU AND YOU BOTH HAVE KIDS, THATS GOOD.TAKE A CHANCE IF ITS MEANT TO BE YOU ALL WITH BE TOGETHER
2006-11-01 06:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by pinkice430 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm, swallow?
2006-11-01 06:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋