well people been telling me not to trust my bf fully because just like any other man, he will cheat on you to find a solution.
Well, i found a txt message session him and some hoe had and also a voicemail that she gave him on his cell. I approached him about it and beat his a*s*s all over the damn room. he had blood coming from all parts of his face, but he still apologized about it and says that he did it because he feels that him and i dont have good communication. I let him know that if he is always gonna run to another hoodrat for comfort when him and i are mad at each other then he can just go do that. So, I kicked his a*s*s out the apartment and tossed his s*h*i*t off the balcony, and we live on the 4th top floor. I told him not to come back and i am changing the locks.
Did i do the right thing people? Let me know what yall think about this and if you think we can still resolve our problems. Also, he didnt really cheat, he was talking to another chick. still matters?
2006-11-01 06:28:01 · 12 answers · asked by yagurlbubblez 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
listen people...where i come from...you get your a*s*s beat for disrespect. I am a straight hoodrat, so plz save the anger management speeches for oprah...thanx
2006-11-01 06:48:19 · update #1
He did cheat and you did the right thing. DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK. Anyone who will cheat on you just doesn't care for you the way they need to. Dont take him back or else you'll be a few months down the line looking back and kicking yourself in the *ss for it.
2006-11-01 06:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) Emotional cheating / texting another woman hurts just as bad as physically cheating.
2) You need some major anger management classes
3) You were 100% right to get rid of him
4) Find a man that is honest, and in love with you. And only you.
2006-11-01 14:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL that's just funny what a wimp he is and as for him cheating you were a bit dramatic but i think you did the right thing on kicking him out.
You should never hit anyone no matter guy or girl there are better ways to deal with stuff then hitting.
2006-11-01 14:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah you did the right thing and I would have done the same thing. I really doubt that you'll resolve the problems because once there are problems in a relationship its to hard to fix them and make things right again. Your gonna feel sad and miss him at first but you'll get over it and find someone else.
2006-11-01 14:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should go to jail for assaulting him!! Cheating does not give you the right to strike another human being !! Domestic violence goes BOTH ways !!! Aww, now all the ladies are gonna cry about what I said !!!! ITS TRUE, DEAL WITH IT !!!
2006-11-01 14:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by Falling to pieces 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girl, u r some kind of crazy!!!! u didn't have to go psycho b**** on him and if he was just talkin and textin u shouldv'e just told him that u didn't agree or appreciate that- not beat him black and blue!!!! maybe you need anger management and a counselor- good luck sweets- it will be alright!!!!!
2006-11-01 14:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by ke ke 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont think ur gonna resolve these problems... but... u can prevent future problems... tell all ur new bf's wat u did to him for cheating if they don't get scared away then they wont cheat (mention hittin him in the nuts several time, u have no idea how painful this is)
2006-11-01 14:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm you were way too brutal. hitting ppl is for babies and children...not grown mature adults. yes u were right to discontinue the relationship but plz don't resort to fisticuffs anymore.
2006-11-01 14:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by jesus-lives! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he didnt even cheat? then your a psycho lady
2006-11-01 14:35:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you went a lil to far maybe just way to far
2006-11-01 14:34:57 · answer #10 · answered by brandy baby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋