Singles & Dating - 31 October 2006

Dated a new guy for 2 months exclusively (he is only seeing me, also). We've talked about marriage often and we share about everything imaginable (idealistically, morally, physically, emotionally, spiritually, mentally, etc.). I have really fallen in love with him, our families like each other, but he hasn't told me he loves me yet. Normally, I would worry about this, but he shows me it in the things he does for me everyday. He puts me first, and really looks out for me and my boys. I know he was badly hurt in a previous relationship, so he is very cautious with his feelings, though he's said he cares deeply for me. I know the real test for him it to see how I can "take care" of him. After 2 failed marriages, and the last being very abusive, I have learned to take care of "me" first, which is totally out of my normal character, but necessary for my survival back then. How can I show him my love daily and that I really am there for him, too? Please help, I want marry this one...Thanks!

2006-10-31 06:44:07 · 10 answers · asked by Forgot How 2 Show Him 2

2006-10-31 06:43:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-31 06:43:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to get him something special or make him something special. I love the ideas that I have seen about getting rentals for exotic cars or front row basketball tickets, but he's not a sports fan and I am a college student, so I cant yet afford the car rental. He's really into street racing, import cars, he loves when I give him pictures of us (though I have run out of creative things to do with them since I already made him an pic frame and I dont have time to do a scrapbook). I was wondering if any guy thinks giving him a nice professional massage would be good. Please help me with more suggestions. I don't want to buy him any more clothes or video games or movies, I want to do something that will either be really exciting for him or something he can keep. I have only until 1 month :( Please keep it at $75 or less

2006-10-31 06:42:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-31 06:40:53 · 31 answers · asked by saturdaynight19010@hotmail.com 1

I loved being a kid..........things were so happy and carefree and I was so innocent and naive. It seems like the older I get, the worse things get. Bills, kids, cheating mates, b(itching *** parents. If I could turn back the hands of time I'd definitely go back to being a kid again.

2006-10-31 06:39:54 · 11 answers · asked by Infinite 1

2006-10-31 06:39:26 · 8 answers · asked by MICKEY M 3

2006-10-31 06:38:16 · 17 answers · asked by tweety196969 1

I've been with this man for almost 4 yrs. and I love him so, but he had more than 1 relationship with woman that cheated, lied, and even stoled from him. Even his own sister stoled everything from him. So now everytime something comes up missing he looks right at me and says "you were the only one here" I've never done those kind of things to anyone in my whole life, I was brought up from a good family and I honor those beliefs Don't lie,cheat or steal! my moto is that someone might get everthing I have or own but they will never get my diggnity from me. And this is what I teach my daughter everday! And this man knows that but he still insists that I take things or steal things from him, then he'll turn around and find it or I have to some-how prove that I didn't do it, then he just acts as if nothing happened, I've almost left him several times,but decided I love him to much! I know he loves me to but he just can't over come the fact That I don't do those things! He won't get help!

2006-10-31 06:37:27 · 11 answers · asked by sunnydays 4

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 mos, and just last week he proposed to me, and now he wants me to move in with him, is it too soon or should I just go for it?

2006-10-31 06:35:49 · 31 answers · asked by jinky l 1

2006-10-31 06:34:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

but suudenly he became aggressive with me than usual .i thnk he is strange . i think he loved me with much care and became by then so odd!i dono know how to treat him . is it because i told him once i will call him by some time and i didnot do it?!!!!!!i want to know men's answer to the question if there is a chance.

2006-10-31 06:33:27 · 1 answers · asked by sosi 1

would you sleep with a man who ofered you £50,000 . come tell the truth.................

2006-10-31 06:33:08 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-31 06:32:26 · 6 answers · asked by Kramer 4

i found a girl that i have seen hundreds of times but she can only come like twice a month to church so when i saw her i asked her to come to this bonfire thing and she said sure so then i told her i liked her but sshe changed the subject anyways we hung out and she sat next to me four times in twenty minutes!!! she is three days younger than me literally. we are both 13. oh she has a twin brother and two weeks ago i told him i liked her and he told her that "one of his friends" liked me i am his friend so... she guessed it was me. at the bonfire there was this hayride and she sat with me going and coming. what my problem really is i guess how do i ask her if she likes me oh i can't date till im 18 and my parents know i like her and they sorta tease me about her. did i mention that my sister likes a guy named taylor and i like a girl named taylor... wierd. so just give me the best advice you can so have a nice day thank u all

2006-10-31 06:32:17 · 5 answers · asked by pistoluser 3

you really love your man. like he's really romantic, caring, etc...like you feel like you've been swept off your feet. and the sex is good. basically when you're in that mental state of mind that everything is perfect and you feel really loved.

or....

when it's just raw porno style sex. like this man knows how to work it and is just pounding you good. for example, if it was a one night stand and you had no emotional connection but he is really good in bed.

2006-10-31 06:32:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend is kinda experienced and has dated mostly strippers before me. I am not innocent and I have had my share enough to know what I am doing. He tells me how much he loves the things we do and or sex life is soooo good. But every now and then he mentions different tricks girls do. He asks me if I know any and although I know a few I want to be on the top of his list. Every know and then when I try something new it hits a nerve with him. and there is nothing sexier during sex then seeing him go crazy when he likes something (such a turn on) and he gives me the most passionate kisses when this happens. I just wanna know what are some off the wall tricks that will blow his mind and where do I learn them?

2006-10-31 06:31:18 · 7 answers · asked by Laprincessa1182 2

2006-10-31 06:31:05 · 2 answers · asked by segzykay 2

if the guy I am seeing is attracted to me or not? When we are together he is always finding reasons to touch my hand or my back or to put an arm around me. He kisses my forehead but never my lips. He has kissed me before but it was a really slow one time kiss. I don't think if could have been a bad kiss because he still hangs around and talks to me and wants to see me every day but why doesn't he kiss me?

2006-10-31 06:29:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

The mens and womens locker rooms here at school are seperated by a concrete wall, well over the years lots of cracks have formed and you can see into the womens shower and locker area and vise versa, girls can see into the mens side! question is do the girls look? and not say anything, cause the cracks have been there for years! whats up girls,, do you look!

2006-10-31 06:28:30 · 3 answers · asked by Bobby W 1

i heard news about it whats goin on?

2006-10-31 06:27:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Nobody has the rights to her account I am her grandaughter and she only had 1 child (my dad) who can we call to help figure this all out?

2006-10-31 06:25:58 · 15 answers · asked by calieyecandy 3

Suppose once you got married you could never get divorced, but you could have sex with anyone you wanted to, as long as your partner knew about it and had the option to watch you because he/she was there or you filmed it. Suppose that though you couldn't ever divorce, you could always separate. Would being allowed to take on multiple partners enhance the agreement? Your thoughts please.

2006-10-31 06:25:34 · 14 answers · asked by kradori_hyde 2

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

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34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

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21 minutes ago
i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it.

2006-10-31 06:24:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

some where that has like 5 minutes dates then you move on to the next 5 minute dates. somewhere in san diego

2006-10-31 06:23:06 · 4 answers · asked by bebe 1

2006-10-31 06:22:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay i have an now ex girlfriend we just broke up but she still wants to be friends and take it slow before we have a chance to get back together, I mean we talked about having kids and getting married, i was the first guy she ever gave oral sex to and we were together for 2 years but i had problems and she had problems.And my problem was my anger and her problem was being irresponsible and not wanting to work. But we have been broken up for a couple of months and sense then i have gone to anger managerment and read books about anger and she have become more resposible and gotten a job. I mean i see a change in her and i feel like i have changed. We both tell each other i love u all the time and we still hang out a lot and go to the movies and mall together. Should i just keep hanging with her and better our friendship before we go out again. I mean is starting over as friends a good stragedy to make a relationship work a second time around.

2006-10-31 06:21:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend thinks its fine his ex kids go with us to the movies. they are not even his kids

2006-10-31 06:21:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is very cute, but couldn't tell a girl that was interested in him from a drag queen(who are actually very cool people). He doesn't know I like him. What do I do?

2006-10-31 06:20:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

i never go out and meet new guys, even at school B/c its wrong if i have a bf. I dont have issues w/ my bf having friends either.he met some tutor in class, which has escalated into a social realtionship. they text each other, i asked her to stop, and she still called him.she doesnt know me, but obviously has no respecct for me. he got angry and said i shouldnt ruin his friendships at school, and that i am jealous, im 24 and know better.she sent a text that she was alone all weekend and went to the movies on Sat.,alone!who does that, she wants him to say hed go with her next time write? the point is should i be worried about him, or go and meet her by surprise at school, and really confront her, afterall, i did warn her already. I know its wrong,but i has his calls forwarded to my number, and shes calling. What do i do?

2006-10-31 06:20:51 · 8 answers · asked by lablanca15 2