Dated a new guy for 2 months exclusively (he is only seeing me, also). We've talked about marriage often and we share about everything imaginable (idealistically, morally, physically, emotionally, spiritually, mentally, etc.). I have really fallen in love with him, our families like each other, but he hasn't told me he loves me yet. Normally, I would worry about this, but he shows me it in the things he does for me everyday. He puts me first, and really looks out for me and my boys. I know he was badly hurt in a previous relationship, so he is very cautious with his feelings, though he's said he cares deeply for me. I know the real test for him it to see how I can "take care" of him. After 2 failed marriages, and the last being very abusive, I have learned to take care of "me" first, which is totally out of my normal character, but necessary for my survival back then. How can I show him my love daily and that I really am there for him, too? Please help, I want marry this one...Thanks!
2006-10-31 06:44:07 · 10 answers · asked by Forgot How 2 Show Him 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do that, be there for him. Cook him dinner, keep the house clean, make love to him, and have sex, (yes, there is a difference!). Buy him a Hallmark card, wash his car, detail his car. You know what he likes....
2006-10-31 06:48:18 · answer #1 · answered by Fuzzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To show how u love him u need to be at his side most of the times and just talk. Show him how u really feel about him by trying to go out more often with him and doing many exotic things that he loves.Also, try to get his thoughts and his opinion on different issues that he has or going through.
2006-10-31 06:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by karla16jc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always hard after you have been hurt to put yourself back out there but that is what must be done.
This is the rigors of dating and relationships.
It is still early in your relationship and ACTIONS speak louder than words. You said that his actions are good and that he puts you first. He is on the right track but how do you know that you want to marry him after two months. Take your time and get to know him better. When the time is right and you both are ready nature WILL take its course.
2006-10-31 06:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by LordzAbove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for your past but really you need to slow down. 2 months in no way near enough time to know somebody and to make those kind of decisions.
Take it easy and dont be in such a rush - havent you heard - "good things come to those who wait"
2006-10-31 06:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him by doin the little things for him, tell him how you feel...
2006-10-31 06:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him in the way that he shows you!
2006-10-31 06:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by Child of God 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him your @ss, and a can of whip cream!!
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-10-31 06:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stare at him that will give him an idea about your feeling !!
2006-10-31 06:46:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont uses words use your mouth
2006-10-31 06:46:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋