im 37 and hes 19 but he treats me soo good but my family doesnt what should i do?

Answer 1

Good luck keeping that one....wait till he hits 21....bub-bye!

Answer 2

Oh dear ... tough, tough situation - you are feeling used and dogged on by your family, probably depressed and a little bored. Along comes Prince Charming - the fountain of youth, if you like - and showers attention on you.

Trouble is, and I'm sure you know it deep down - you're living a fantasy.

The up side is that it's flattering, exciting, and it feels great. Makes you feel good about yourself, maybe for the first time in a long time.
The down side - you're setting yourself up for some major league pain.
At best, the age gap will become a bigger obstacle as time passes. You both may have the best intentions right now, but reality WILL prevail, and you will be the one who bears most of the consequences.

I honestly think you need to try to ease yourself out of this relationship. Not easy, I know.
Is there a way you can talk to your family and let them know you're not prepared to accept the way they treat you?
Is there some other self-esteem building activity (sport, new job, hobby, volunteer work) that you can throw yourself into?

I'm not judging you honey - this is gonna be hard for you to go through. I wish you luck & happiness. I just don't think you're gonna find that where you are right now.

Answer 3

I've always found that younger men can be great, expecially when you haven't been with someone, or got out of a bad relationship. Younger men are easier to control at first. I'm not sure how long you've been together but, I always find at some point the maturity levels start to present themselves. He may be different, and if he is then I wouldn't worry about what your family does. But always know you will face adversity from others because your relationship is not "norm".

Answer 4

So Im 35 and I ve dated a few younger men, but I generally draw the line when I am old enough to be their mother!!! I mean sure the sex is good, but you are thinking about retirement plans and he is thinking about the new Playstation 3!!! Good luck with a younger man who isnt in the same place you are. . . .

Answer 5

WELL, LETS SEE HERE. YOU'RE 37. THAT MEANS YOU'RE GROWN. AS LONG AS HE TREATS YOU WELL AND ISN'T SOME SORT OF BUM, THEN I SAY FORGET THE FAMILY -- UNLESS OF COURSE YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT A HUSBAND (LOL).

YOU ARE OLD ENOUGH TO KNOW IF SOMETHING FEELS RIGHT OR NOT. I SAY ENJOY. THE FAMILY WILL JUST HAVE TO GET USED TO IT.

Answer 6

Lady get a grip on reality, I mean come on now, he is just a kid still he still has HIS WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF HIM. Let him go to experience the world and dating and maybe going to school to get a career. You are being very selfish in my opinion... Find someone that has been able to live their lives... Don't take his away

Answer 7

Hey my mother dated a guy younger then me (at that time I was freaking out)... it lasted for a couple of years.... have fun, enjoy life and let things happen in there own way.....

Answer 8

LOLOL A woman nearing 40years old and the best you can do is a teenage boy? Seek therapy.

Answer 9

find someone closer to your age. You're 18yrs his senior. Look at it this way you were 18 when he was born. It wouldn't look right for you to date him then and it doesn't look right now. you are more of a mother figure to him as opposed to a mate

Answer 10

Don't be stupid. FOrget him and tell him to find someone his age. I think he like older older woman This cna be a problem later