if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this
hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .
so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?
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and then she just sent this message to him today
"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"
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i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it.
2006-10-31 06:24:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE WAS THE BEST MAN SHE HAS EVER HAD
HE HAS HER HOOKED ON HIM
SHE GAVE HIM ALL OF HER POWER AND HE STILL HAS IT..
TALK TO HER ABOUT IT TELL HER YOU KNOW, AND IF SHE SAYS SHE DOES'NT KNOW TELL HER TO SPEAK TO YOU WHEN SHE FIGURES IT OUT...
2006-10-31 06:35:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is a total flake! She's just with you because she doesn't want to be alone, but she is DEFINITELY trying to get him back. Any normal girl who's ready to move on with her new guy would NOT be texting, emailing and getting angry that her ex is moving on. That guy has the right idea!! You need to talk to her about this, or just move on, cause she's obviously not over him and you're going to get hurt in the process. Good luck to you, she doesn't deserve you.
2006-10-31 14:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by Astro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend you finding a new girlfriend. She is still hung up on her ex and you are hung up on her being hung up. There is no room for trust and you have to have trust for your relationship to grow. Good Luck, B
2006-10-31 14:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by BBM88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she regrts breaking up with him.. and she's only staying with you not to be lonely so if i were you i'd dump her becuz the second he calls her back and says he wants her back(if he ever does) she'll leave you faster then she left him....
2006-10-31 14:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!!!! She would not still be calling her ex if she was over you!!!!!!!!!!! The best way is to explain to her you want to move on with your life!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-31 14:29:49 · answer #5 · answered by I'm single wanna mingle? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋