i found a girl that i have seen hundreds of times but she can only come like twice a month to church so when i saw her i asked her to come to this bonfire thing and she said sure so then i told her i liked her but sshe changed the subject anyways we hung out and she sat next to me four times in twenty minutes!!! she is three days younger than me literally. we are both 13. oh she has a twin brother and two weeks ago i told him i liked her and he told her that "one of his friends" liked me i am his friend so... she guessed it was me. at the bonfire there was this hayride and she sat with me going and coming. what my problem really is i guess how do i ask her if she likes me oh i can't date till im 18 and my parents know i like her and they sorta tease me about her. did i mention that my sister likes a guy named taylor and i like a girl named taylor... wierd. so just give me the best advice you can so have a nice day thank u all
2006-10-31 06:32:17 · 5 answers · asked by pistoluser 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm go for it
2006-10-31 06:35:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you really brought me back to my childhood... You are so pure and this is so wonderful... You are very young. Therefore you should just follow your heart. Whatever you do, it will turn out to be a childhood memory and I am sure it will be one of few things which will shape your character in the future.
At your age, dating is not a big problem. Just don't pretend like you are older. Trust me. You will have a long life as an adult. Enjoy your childhood while you still have time.
2006-10-31 14:42:10 · answer #2 · answered by bogus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, young 'love' is fun and really emotional. I've had my fair share. but it isn't worth it. I mean all it really is is temptation and distraction for you. and besides you can't date. I would advise you leave it be. i know you won't stop thinking about her but keeping your parent's trust is the most important thing you can do. especially at your age. people are gonna read this and tell you that that's not true but in the end who is going to help you through high school, college, marriage and everything in between? teenagers are always ranting about how their parents are so unfair and are so mean, but very likely their parents treat them like that because they've already broken the bonds of trust. I hope you take my advise. it probably isn't exactly what you wanted to hear but...i know what I'm talking about. I'm 17 and can't date til I'm 18, too. I broke trust with my parents and was lucky enought to gain it back. and I can tell you it wasn't worth breaking it to begin with.
2006-10-31 14:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by JJK789 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first, ask your parents for an exeption, if you can date her. Then tell her that you like her and that if she liked you too than you would like to take her out. If she says no (at least you tried), If she says yes. You need to ask her to ask her parents. If they say no, its ok, wait some time and see what happens then you can try again.(responsability = maturity). If they both agree then there you go. But never I repeat never have sex (or things that lead to it). Its not worth it at this age and plus you got your whole life ahead of you.
OHH and if your parents say no. No means no. Life is easier that way because remember you want to be responsable (I dont know its just that parents like that).
2006-10-31 14:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont seem there is a problem
2006-10-31 14:35:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋