Singles & Dating - 29 October 2006

My girlfriend and I have been together for three years now. I was her first. When we first got together, we had sex all of the time and after a year and a half it just stopped. One day, it's like it wa sjust gone. All her life she's had endometriosis and problem's with cysts on her ovaries. I'm sympathetic but as a man, I feel sex is important to our relatinship and I still have a healthy sex drive. I'm worried that the problem isn't only physical but mental as well. I feel as though she's not attracted to me anymore. When I bring any of this up, she becomes angry and says that I only want her for sex. So I give up and fall off to sleep usually. I love her so much, but I'm afraid that this is damaging our relationship beyond repair. She talks about marriage sometimes but I can't see being married to someone that I can't make love with, or at least have a quickie before work or something, for the rest of my life. I'm genuinely worried. What can I do?

2006-10-29 09:09:51 · 12 answers · asked by ben j 1

any tips on things to do?

2006-10-29 09:09:18 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is mainly for the guys......do guys really like slutty girls who will do anything with them? because in high school those girls seem to be the only ones who get the girls attention.....so honeslty guys, do you look for the girls who will be a slu*t and do anything with you?

2006-10-29 09:08:01 · 18 answers · asked by Ellen 4

There is this guy I really like.And last year that he liked me too,but we never got together.This year he told everyone that he coouldn't like someone younger.But now he likes an ugly skinny skinny skinny girl that is 1year younger than me.Why.Why did he suddenly change his mind? Does he really like another girl or is he just saying this to make me jelous.If so its working.And even if he isnt that interested in me anymore,how can I get him to be,besides being myself.

2006-10-29 09:07:14 · 13 answers · asked by Jennifer T 2

as i consider myself so romantic

2006-10-29 09:06:45 · 11 answers · asked by abdou z 1

what is the best way to tell ur ex that u have changed for the better and that u really want to make things work

2006-10-29 09:05:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-29 09:04:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

marriage in the past.

But I'd like to one day marry...should I get out of this relationship now? Or should I wait till I find someone else that is long term material?
Every time I think about leaving him, the thought hurts too bad...but I am never going to mention the M word to him because of how he feels...at the same time, I should not ignore my desires either.

Help--only if you know what I am dealing with and have dealt with it yourself (unless you're a troll, in which case, you'll get automatically ignored...)

2006-10-29 09:01:39 · 10 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5

everybodys telling me ur soo pretty ..but i dont know y boyz never ask me out and im nice and have nice curves!!!!!help me plzzzzzzzzzzzzz

2006-10-29 09:01:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I fell in love with this girls smile and I couldn't keep myself from talking to her and still can't. I just can't...

Anyways the only place I see her is in the halls we have no classes with each other. So I approached her in the halls and the first conversation I tried to start out really casually. I asked her where she got her lip ring done at. Then asked her name.

Either way the other two convos were also fairly casual and I know she has the hint I like her. But I'm confused as to whether girls expect this kind of thing or not... I mean. My sister says she'd be kinda creeped out by someone she didn't know asking her how her weekend went and ****.

I don't know, so I guess that's why I'm asking here. Please give me some input if I made a bad approach and if I did how should I fix this...

2006-10-29 09:00:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-29 09:00:30 · 3 answers · asked by browneyegirl 3

2006-10-29 08:58:55 · 51 answers · asked by THE BULB 3

I really like a coworker of mine. Problem is last night we were at the bar having a few drinks when she told me that she had a secret to tell me. Unfortunetly for me the secret was not exactly what I wanted to hear. She told me that she is seeing another guy from work, however she hasn't told anyone else besides her mom and brother about this guy. . Then she tells me that she loves me and gives me a hug. I'm pretty sure she liked me before but I didn't make a move because we work together. The problem is she is so nice to me and we have so much in common that I feel like we should be together. But of course she only wants me as a friend now. Should I just keep a professional relationship with her or should I remain the friend that she wants? Keep in mind I have never really let her know how I feel about her.

2006-10-29 08:57:42 · 4 answers · asked by Nasty Boy 2

HELP!

2006-10-29 08:54:39 · 7 answers · asked by Sachal A 1

2006-10-29 08:53:54 · 11 answers · asked by Zac 1

he calls me in the middle of the day just to say "i love u"...????

2006-10-29 08:53:18 · 15 answers · asked by cUpCaKe_ 1

in a romantic relationship sense

2006-10-29 08:52:09 · 12 answers · asked by Fred 1

2006-10-29 08:51:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-29 08:49:59 · 8 answers · asked by Big Rob 2

iv chased my ex for so long..and i get nothing back from him..he ceases contact cos he knows im always there..does the fact that he never gets in touch means he's over me n doesnt love me anymore?or does he just enjoy the chase?

2006-10-29 08:49:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a 14 year old girl, pretty good looking, big boobs, blond hair. I was at a party a couple of days ago when something happened. There were about 10 boys and 4 girls. We were playing truth or dare and i was dared to let all the boys stick 1 of there fingers in my vagina. Everybody else was doing weird things and accepting it so i let them. I was kindof embarresed but it felt good and i t wasnt rape or anything bad like that. Should i do things like this in games?

2006-10-29 08:49:21 · 1 answers · asked by bubba h 1

I am a shy 55 year-old guy. Divorced in 1999 and have not dated since. I would like to meet someone but everywhere on the WEB you have to pay to join a club to establish some sort of relationship or to start communicating with someone. I am wondering if there were a place where it is free.

2006-10-29 08:48:29 · 1 answers · asked by Drwho 1

I kinda like this guy, but hez 4 yrs older than me and out of high school. So i only see him when he's working and at church occasionally... We're friends, when i see him he stops to talk to me and he smiles at me all the time but i don't know... Hez 19 and i don't know if it would work out, and i don't know if he likes me... I told one of my friends and she thinks it's cute, and wants to ask him if he likes me... should i let her or will it make it too obvious that i like him?

Ne suggestions?? How do i find out if he likes me without asking straight out?

2006-10-29 08:46:20 · 14 answers · asked by ksm_623 3

2006-10-29 08:44:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

First of all, I really would like to make clear that I'm not some kind of perv.
There's this girl I like who's about 17 and I am 25. She's working behind a cash register and I regularly visit the store (to do some serious shopping. I'm not a stalker) I think she's very beautiful and noticed that she's also flirting with me. Sometimes she even blushes lightly. But I'm afraid to take action because I think of possible consequences. Like for instance, she might still be under 18. Do you think this is a problem?

2006-10-29 08:44:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

now you dont have a boyf or girlf and you know for 6years.

2006-10-29 08:43:13 · 14 answers · asked by inez s 1

ok i've seen my bf with other girls and i ask him is he cheating and he says no. but 3 months ago i saw him making out with another girl and now we r back together and i think he is cheating again. should i break up with him?

2006-10-29 08:43:12 · 16 answers · asked by punk_skull 1

2006-10-29 08:42:48 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-29 08:42:30 · 4 answers · asked by lovelo 1

I'm seeing this guy and when he comes over we normally just talk and watch tv. I can't go out tonight but I'm just sitting here thinking of how I can do something different, funnier. I thought about games but that's not really fun with just 2 people. Does anyone have any ideas of things we can do together while at home? I can't leave because my kids will be in bed.

2006-10-29 08:42:04 · 17 answers · asked by browneyegirl 3