2006-10-29 08:49:59 · 8 answers · asked by Big Rob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she's not what you want then your should end things now and not string her along.
2006-10-29 08:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by golden_moon_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she deserves a chance because she is good to you and your son. It's not easy to find good people anymore so If I were you I'd try to give her a chance unless you know you really can't then I would tell her right away so her feeling wont get hurt another thing see what your son thinks of her too. Good luck
JoAnn
2006-10-29 16:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by JoAnn W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she deserves a chance yes--but the chance would be to be with a good man who wants her for who she is and for what sje has to offer..She deserves a chance at true happiness. If she is not what you want and you end up walking down the aisle with her it will never work..you'll always have the what ifs running in your head and it will end up hurting your son. Kids are wonderful and they will love anyone you love..dont let him get attached and then let her go..if you dont love her dont string her along..let her go now.
2006-10-29 17:03:15 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she deserves is you telling her you have mixed emotions.
If she's wasteing her time with you if your heart just isn't in to her, she deserves to be cut loose so she has a chance to be kind and good to others.
Don't use her, ok.
2006-10-29 16:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you already know she's not what you want, then end it now before your son gets too attached and her to your son. Don't waste her time or her emotions.
2006-10-29 16:51:59 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just as important as your son. being with her just because she likes your son is sweet but it isn't going to work in the long run and your son will just end up hurt when things get bad with you and her
2006-10-29 16:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a divorced middle-aged woman, I would say, don't devote your time to that relationship if she is not what you want -- it will end up not being fair to either of you.
2006-10-29 16:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by catintrepid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play her like that.
2006-10-29 16:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋