I kinda like this guy, but hez 4 yrs older than me and out of high school. So i only see him when he's working and at church occasionally... We're friends, when i see him he stops to talk to me and he smiles at me all the time but i don't know... Hez 19 and i don't know if it would work out, and i don't know if he likes me... I told one of my friends and she thinks it's cute, and wants to ask him if he likes me... should i let her or will it make it too obvious that i like him?
Ne suggestions?? How do i find out if he likes me without asking straight out?
2006-10-29 08:46:20 · 14 answers · asked by ksm_623 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should let her!!! If not you'll regret because you won't ask him if he likes you!!! Worst case scenario is he'll get a hint that you like him. Which is good than who knows he might start hanging out with you more and even love you back! If not than sometimes it's better when people don't know everything.
Take it from someone who did this. I asked my friends crush (who also happened to be my crush) if he liked my friend, (she moved) and he was like no! but in a joking way. They're still friends, and i still talk to him. Although i don't have a crush on him anymore he didn't even know that she moved!!!!
My friend accidently blurted it out that i liked him, and although i was mad at her i was secretly happy, because i knew the truth and he thought she was just kidding. I used reverse pyshocology and pretended to be mad at her.
Example: There was this guy who was seriously crushing on me, and it was obvious! He would help me when i fell (and trust me that was a lot of times, i have clumsy written all over me) and ask me if i was okay. I don't know why but whenever i know someone loves me i love them back. May be this guy may be the same way. You'll never know if you don't try.
Try casually flirting with him. See if he reacts in a good way or even better flirts back!=) Figure out his work schedule and if you're free wait for him when he's on his break, or when his works over and wave and smile. That is if he works near by. LOL. But don't be all over him, be sipping coffee than glance over and wave.
If you start dating visit this site. I reccommend to everyone who's dating. It gives you flirting tips, kissing guides, french kissing guides, and if your parents don't like him, how to convince them.
2006-10-29 09:02:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 15, he is 19. Leave it alone. I was in your position when I was 15 but now that I am a few years older I realized that I was stupid. I thought that this guy really liked me and what not. I thought I was this cool girl. Instead, I was a fool. He wasn't into me, he was into that thing. I am not saying that this guy wants this from you but the difference is just too troublesome. He could get into A LOT of trouble if he dates you. Especially if your parents don't like him. Honestly, try dating someone closer to your age. Stay friends with this guy and leave it alone. Good Luck..and be careful!
2006-10-29 08:58:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
good, judging through how she's all tousled in her relationships (2 boyfriends while) she would say sure and simply use you to cheer up after which unload you. I'd say that is slightly of a grey field. But for those who quite consider she's that gorgeous and you do not brain what occurs later then yep you are proper two perhaps three weeks and your golden. the opposite one will commonly get jealous, however for those who men do not speak she'll recover from you and transfer on and you'll be able to not ever have that danger once more... which might suck if she truthfully is that beautiful :L You gotta make a decision which lady you prefer extra. considering that for those who opt for one your gonna fail to spot the opposite. the dancing factor: I in my view consider that might be quite adorable xP however a few women might be like.. wtf?? i assume it depends upon the way you pull it off - like if you are a quite humorous now not awkward man you are golden with that. But for those who come of tacky it is sport over. Hope i would support :P
2016-09-01 04:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's 19 and 4 years older than you, that makes you 15. If he's smart, even if he likes you he won't tell you. You are what's considered jailbait. Give it a few years. In the meantime fine a guy a little closer to your age.
2006-10-29 08:50:55 · answer #4 · answered by LongLegs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should let her ask him how he feels because u never know whats gonna happen. Just like u never know if u can fly until u jump. And if ur 15 and he is 19 then, u go girl.
2006-10-29 08:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
check out if he has any other girls, and if no competition, just drop subtle hints like ooh ur hair looks good today or u look great in that jacket etc etc. then there always email n notes if u cant speak directly but i think direct speaking is best.
2006-10-29 08:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by Love at first sight 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he might like you but being 4 years younger,, he can get iinto alot of trouble law wise,,
you all might not be doing anything but its still against the law for him to date you because you are a minor,,,
you should ask him urself how he feels,,
2006-10-29 08:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by thanks to our brave troops, 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask if he wants to do something like a movie and if he like says yes and goes and is like acting like he likes you then he probably does.
2006-10-29 08:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by mcrmy~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah she should tell him it would make it kind of obvious then let it be but 4 yrs is not so bad
2006-10-29 08:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well with you only being 15 I don't know if he would go for that but if you really want to then ask him to go get something to eat with you or something like that
2006-10-29 08:49:12 · answer #10 · answered by jstressed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋