iv chased my ex for so long..and i get nothing back from him..he ceases contact cos he knows im always there..does the fact that he never gets in touch means he's over me n doesnt love me anymore?or does he just enjoy the chase?
2006-10-29 08:49:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You chase him?
Have you NO self respect? What would your reaction be if a bloke pursued you relentlessly?
If you really want him back, then you have to be someone he wants.
So: -
1. Stop contacting him. At all. Not even a text.
2. Go get yourself papmered for the day - you'll feel better and so be more confident
3. New wardrobe / clothes / convertibel car.
4. Take a girlie holiday. I'm assuming you're a girl?!
4. Meet some other people.
5. Speed date.
6. Eventually the paths of you and your ex will cross again. You will look confident, fabulous and unattainable. Which you will be, because you will have spent the intervening months thinking about you and not him. Life is toooo short to let someone else get to you to that degree. Take your pride, walk away and find someone worthy.
Good luck!
2006-10-29 09:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by Matt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you doing this to yourself.
I would stop the chasing and continue your life to the best of your ability too. If you stop the chase you ex may come to you but if he does not than you know that it is over.
you will meet someone new and be happy but you will never know how happy you can be unless you give yourself that chance to get on with your life.
If your ex wants to know than he will let you know but other than that time is a great healer
good luck
2006-10-29 08:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chased a woman who treated me like that for the last 3 years. It was worth it, she saw the error of her ways and we are solid now. Maybe you will be as lucky
2006-10-29 08:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by Yeah yeah yeah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep ge is over u and might make contact with u when he wonders hwere u have gone, but only because its probably a control thing. If he wanted you he would be with u.........my ex sill thinks i want him after a year yet i never text him.........hard i know but move on..and if he comes running back then dont go back to him itsa control thing trust ne!
2006-10-29 09:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously.......he dont wanna be with you and you are putting him off by acting so desperate.Guys perfare girls that they cant have, they wanna chase the girl, not the other way round..is a turn off for them....Stop torturin yourself and get with someone else!
2006-10-29 09:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by mersie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is way over you. sounds like you chasing and he couldn't care less.
Time you grab a hold of your pride and move on. It'll only hurt you more if you desperately hold on to the past.
2006-10-29 08:58:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't love you or want you anymore, sorry...he's a man if he did he would have let you catch him at least once by now...sorry but he seems to be over you...cut your losses and try the best you can to move on ...good luck ;0)
2006-10-29 09:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wheres ur pride n dignity gone? Men r not worth that much...
2006-10-29 09:09:21 · answer #8 · answered by poshnosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is enjoyable to see others chasing you.
2006-10-29 08:54:08 · answer #9 · answered by Ramesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on girl
2006-10-29 09:06:24 · answer #10 · answered by Gossip81 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋