I fell in love with this girls smile and I couldn't keep myself from talking to her and still can't. I just can't...
Anyways the only place I see her is in the halls we have no classes with each other. So I approached her in the halls and the first conversation I tried to start out really casually. I asked her where she got her lip ring done at. Then asked her name.
Either way the other two convos were also fairly casual and I know she has the hint I like her. But I'm confused as to whether girls expect this kind of thing or not... I mean. My sister says she'd be kinda creeped out by someone she didn't know asking her how her weekend went and ****.
I don't know, so I guess that's why I'm asking here. Please give me some input if I made a bad approach and if I did how should I fix this...
2006-10-29 09:00:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you havent made a mistake. how else would you have known her name if you hadnt aproached her? to be honest that was a really cool move.
2006-10-29 09:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by Obria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it was a bad approach it was spontaneous & confident. I like your approach because all of my life I've been sick of guys who'd beat around the bush & stock me with their eyes all the time. As for me I would admire a guy who'd be so clear to me 'bout his feelings even if I don't want to be his girlfriend.
What u did was good . It's better than going crazy over her from a distance.
Now that u've introduced yourself take things slowly & just be friendly until u know if she wants u they way u want her or not. What u do next might creep her out if u take things very fast.
I congratulate u whether this thing works out or not because u did what a man should do . Go after the woman he wants instead of just fantazising about her until someone else takes her away from him.
Good luck
2006-10-29 09:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lola j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. this is how i see it. some girls like it when people (we will say admire) Admire them, but some feel uncomfortable. i would say that if she seems uncomfortable its either because she doesnt know you very well or she simpply doesnt like you, but if your in the first steps this is a great time to find out. if i were you i would definatley keep talking to her. with the wayt things are going its best to make friendship rather than make conversation. at this point instead of stoping to talk to her just say whats up or how are you when you walk by. that way she doesnt feel stuck talking to you if she doesnt want to but she will think its sweet that your acknowledging shes there. then after a few days of that start with the small talk again. ask about hobbies and junk... but for now, try to be sweet not pushy.
2016-03-28 01:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yours was a very friendly approach. I would be flattered if you came up to me in the hall and just started talking...It would tell me that you are very confident and know what you want. Don't stop your conversations with the girl, continue and I know that when you are ready, you will ask her out.
2006-10-29 09:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had to think about what to say in this answer for a little while, but I've come to the conclusion that it was a nice start. I would probably be a little on edge at first with such a quick introduction, but I feel like you definitely started things nicely. I just have one suggestion, be witty and confident...but don't hold yourself up on a pedestal....and don't push yourself onto her because there's a chance that she would hesitate. Just be yourself, you're fine. Good luck!
2006-10-29 09:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by cairceylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a strange approach at all! Most girls would be flattered! I think your way was a great way and the most nonthreatning. No cheesy pick up lines or anyhting like that. Dont listen to your sister! lol
2006-10-29 09:05:50 · answer #6 · answered by Suzzette M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your approach is fine, you are trying to get to know her. There is nothing wrong with striking up a conversation with someone you are interested in. Just keep it casual and when you are more comfortable then you can inquire about more intimate details about her life.
2006-10-29 09:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by goaliegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it was a bad approach because u should have asked 4 her nmae firat and for most, then u should have complimented her lip ring, and then moved to where she got it done, and finally asked her other important questions and see if u could call her sometimes.and if she refuses on the call then ask if u can at least be friends.
2006-10-29 09:08:45 · answer #8 · answered by princesspooh1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sweat it; you did great! Breaking the ice w/ a gurl u like is a big step and you did it like a pro! (next time, tho, make sure she gets ur name *grin*) Keep up the good work, but, remember: don't rush things or you'll scare her!
How old is that sis of yours? If she's under 13, ignore her ;P
2006-10-29 09:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by Ayumi 23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thinks thats a very nice approach! By asking her about how she's doing and things going on with her,it shows you are interested! Im sure she thinks about it and smiles :)
2006-10-29 09:07:25 · answer #10 · answered by Lindz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think itz that weird. Does she look happy when u talk to her? If she does then go ahead and ask her how her weekend went... She might end up liking that u showed an interest
2006-10-29 09:07:05 · answer #11 · answered by ksm_623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋