There is this guy I really like.And last year that he liked me too,but we never got together.This year he told everyone that he coouldn't like someone younger.But now he likes an ugly skinny skinny skinny girl that is 1year younger than me.Why.Why did he suddenly change his mind? Does he really like another girl or is he just saying this to make me jelous.If so its working.And even if he isnt that interested in me anymore,how can I get him to be,besides being myself.
2006-10-29 09:07:14 · 13 answers · asked by Jennifer T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this guy liked you, you'd be together. You're not, so it's obvious he doesn't. Find someone else to obsess over.
2006-10-29 09:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is please stop feeling this way it is so low self esteem and a huge waste of time do yourself a favor and take the advice and get out of this stupid i'm assuming teenage state of mind that is contradicting (sp) to what your looking for. You can not make someone like you no matter what you do and even if you do by not being yourself like somekind of trick it will just bite you in the *** later when he realizes your basically a joke, right! my advice besides that is forget this he already gave you an exscuse yes an excuse all guys date younger girls all of them he didnt change his mind he lied, he also not trying to make you jealous he trying to get out of it so why dont you do the same ok theres someone out there who will like you for you and dont settle for less no matter how long it takes, Look ever since I was little my only dream was to be in love I didnt find real love until now i'm 29 long rd kid, hay but all the wrong ones in beetween only get you ready for mr right, relax enjoy the ride, GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-29 09:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so u rather a guy to like u because u r not being u? hummmmm ok here goese try to do ur hair better where tighter cuter clothes laugh at his lame jokes wear make up. flirt with his friends and never go out with them hang out with him and his friends but have a guy on ur side , umm when u give him a hung patt him on the back like the dog he is then gently n sudutively kiss him on the neck n if that dont work sleep with him that will surely work
2006-10-29 09:14:05 · answer #3 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jennifer, ir doesn't hurt to be alone and not have a bf maybe he just got a little afraid of asking u out and so he decided to like someone that might ask him outfirst. but if u don't want to be without him then ask him out to a movie or something, it is ok if the girl makes the first move sometimes.
2006-10-29 09:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by princesspooh1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe that ugly ugly skinny skinny girl is "prettier" than you. Check yourself before you check other. Also having a good personality helps. What you need to do now is to leave him alone, he's spoken for, so find someone else. Dont be selfish. Good luck.
2006-10-29 09:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by nonsteroidalantianalgesic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he liked you, there could be a chance for you. He could be saying he likes the other girl to make you jealous. But I think your best bet is to put everything you got into showing him you sill like him and want to hook up this time.
2006-10-29 09:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start inviting hime to do things with you and go have fun , the rest will fall into place if it is meant to be
2006-10-29 09:10:49 · answer #7 · answered by DEADGONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your better off you know now.
My best guess is either she is really easy and he can have his way with her, or even drugs.
If the latter would you have wanted to have been with him anyway?
2006-10-29 09:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by ftroa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be tryin to make you jealous
approach him
thats the only way you'd know
but he might not be, so dont get to attached to him
it can be either.
tell me if u need more help
good luck
2006-10-29 09:12:22 · answer #9 · answered by Nick723 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be doing that to get you jealous. if you show him that its working, that ain't doing nothing but making him feel good. hide the fact that you are jealous and see what happens then.
2006-10-29 09:20:21 · answer #10 · answered by cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋