I was w/Amy for 2 years while in a long dist r'ship with Kate. Amy wanted me to commit to her, to move in, etc. She was totally in love with me, but I could never return her love in the same way because I still had feelings for Kate. Amy begged me to cut off contact with Kate, and said we could be happy together forever. I could never commit to Amy. Now Amy has met someone else-her dad's friend, 20 years older, married, has a daughter in her 20s, and Amy tells me she loves him. He lives in another country, but she thinks it can work with him despite the complications. I have finally gotten over Kate, and want Amy back desperately, but she says she cannot give me what i want. Still Amy and I hang out and she acts like my gf, we sleep together, she calls me at 2am when drunk, says she misses me, says she thinks of the "possibility" of us together. Is this the behavior of a girl in love with someone else? Can i get her back? should i cut off contact and see if she comes back to me?
2006-10-29
08:30:43
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James S
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