i miss him. i love him. i have days that i dont think too much n get on with things - these days i can even think am coping well. but days like today i am lonely. i want him. the last time i called him, he called me a freak n physco.. now i see his on a dating site. i want him i love him.what should i do that will make things better. what? (if you need more info i will add)
2006-10-29 08:05:49 · 17 answers · asked by apple 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Based on what you have said, you really just need to move on. I know it can hurt and it seems like you will never find another person like him. But you will eventually. Honestly, you sound obsessed and guys do not like obsessed women. Guys like to pursue women. They like the chase. What you are doing now will never get him back. The best thing you can do is move on and forget about him as much as possible. Maybe he will change his mind later on and come back (but not likely), but a normal guy will NEVER go back to an obsessed woman.
2006-10-29 08:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by bwiley123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I deff need more info. Key things like if you two have even dated and if so how long. I don't necessarily need an age but it would help. What caused the split up would be big. If you want an answer that isn't a smart @$$ answer from pricks on here you will clarify instead of just saying you miss him and love him. So here is my advice for now, edit you question and I'll check back in a day or so and see what we can do.
2006-10-29 16:13:23 · answer #2 · answered by Jericho28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need is some healing dear. If he doesn't want you he never did in the first place. It was just a thing for him and now he's gone. If I were you I would cry out to God and ask Him to forgive me first and allow Him to heal my broken heart from the hurt that was caused. Because what has happen is that you two has enter into a soul bond that was meant for marriage. It will take the power of God to deliver you from this hold that you have with this man. But you will have to want to be heal in order for God to heal you. Just know when a man calls you names he has no more feelings for you. You were just something for him to play with until he didn't want you any more. Don't make that same mistake again. Let God heal you and bring someone in your life who will love you like Christ loves the Church. God bless you.
2006-10-29 16:28:22 · answer #3 · answered by tfjfiggers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it is over, which can be awful to deal with. He's moving on, and I'm afraid that means you have to too.
It's easier said than done and you'll have to go through some pain and grief before you can really heal.
Telling yourself that it's over will hurt, but it will be better in the long run. Try to imagine doing fun things without him - going on holiday, having an adventure, seeing friends, taking up a new hobby; then, actually DO those things!
Just remember - things WILL pick up.
2006-10-29 16:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i want to know if you guys are officially a couple? if you are, you need to forget about him and dump him! what kind of guy has a gf, but go on a dating site???? if you aren't going out, then maybe you're being a tad obesseive. sometimes you really can't force things and if he doesn't feel the same way about you, then there's nothing you can do about it. think it over and move on. i'm sure you'll find someone who'll appreciate you as much as you appreciate him. good luck!
2006-10-29 16:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by M.Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babe, everyone and I do mean everyon feels that way from time to time. You will move on, your body and mind is just mourning your loose and you will one day wake up happy and ready for anything that comes your way. It hurts like hell I know, but trust me when I say you WILL be fine. Plus, on day that dude is going to see you happy and in a good relationship and he is going to feel so sorry that he every treated you so bad. You are a treasure, and he was not worthy of you love or time.
2006-10-29 16:11:29 · answer #6 · answered by Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus Christ...calm down maybe you are a little physco???? Why go crazy over someone who dosnt like you or is out wanting another girl???? Life is too short for that.
Dont text him!!!If he dosnt like you and he called you physco he will show his friends how many times you texted him and it will kind of prove you are a little crazy...
2006-10-29 16:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by 800 bound 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
QUIT DWELLING ON HIM get your self in some kind of activity toi keep your mind busy and more then anything else START DATING OTHERS!!!!!!!!!! You do that and he will realize he lost something special. He is do to your calling him and just being around him so much is beginning to feel harassed.Stop and look for a more deserving guy
2006-10-29 16:11:11 · answer #8 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we've all been there where we tend to really miss someone just because we're only. It seems like you really like him but he thinks of you as someone who's repulsive. I would say just move on. Whats the point of liking someone that doesn't respect you. whether you love him or is just infatuating about him, the point of the matter is he doesnt like you that same way. Just move on and find someone esle worthwhile.
Maybe you can think of it this way.. there has probably been times where someone like you but you don't like them. Imagine if they're constantly on your back obsessing over you, won't you feel aggitated or freaked out. Welll... hope i made it clear. just move on and find someone who will cherish you.
2006-10-29 16:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by ylimele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel for you sweetie. the only thing that can heal this thing is time. i know it suks but it can be done. reach out to those who love you and care about you and you will find fulfillment again in your life where he has left the void. try to stay positive and i wish you all the luck in the world. if you need to talk about it email me :)
2006-10-29 16:09:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋