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2006-10-29 08:15:29 · 22 answers · asked by D'antwon ;-)~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her to her face and just say I dont think we should be together, but dont be rude because she might beat u up.
2006-10-29 08:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by marine_wife001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be tactful, but straight forward and honest. Do not run her down. Do not leave her hanging and unsure. Do not leave any room for false hope. No matter what and sooner or later it is going to hurt, there is no way around it. Keep your distance afterwards. I am not saying ignore her, but don't give her any reason to hold on the hope there is a chance of getting back.
Let her face the truth, deal with the pain, and move on. That is the best and kindest thing in the long run.
2006-10-29 16:22:45 · answer #2 · answered by Calina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. Plain and simple. Do NOT under any circumstances drag it out or say maybe someday...
Women will get VERY upset, but that sadness will come and go. First, we will cry. We will then try to change your mind. We will next try to change the things you don't like about us (and this may work if you really love her and just needed her to change). Then, we will be given advice from our girlfriends NOT to contact you. So we won't. We will cry for a month, not call you, and move on. If u try to sugarcoat it in any way we will think u still want us...and that is just mean if you don't and really bad karma. Good luck.
2006-10-29 16:23:37 · answer #3 · answered by need help 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Face to face is the only proper way. If you where a sincere boyfriend and things just didn't click between the two of you, be polite but strait forward, your feelings are just as important as her feelings and staying in a relationship just because someone doesn't want to hurt the other is bad for both of them. Sometimes face to face isn't always an option in that case do it over the phone but don't just say we are done and hang up, and never do it over and email or a txt msg that is the cowards way out.
2006-10-29 16:26:45 · answer #4 · answered by Jericho28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off do it PERSONALLY........in an outside-cool (weather), quiet with a nice view place, so when she's hurt she wouldn't be soo stressed about it at the moment. Tell things you dislike (first) and like about her. Then, tell her what you think about your relationship.........."We both know things aren't working out the way we want to. The more we try to work it out, we're just actually making it worse. So I think we should just take a break and see what happens." Then give her a hug. Most of us girls know when the guys don't call or don't come back to us then we know the guy doesn't love us.....we get it........... his love is gone. Give her atleast a month......don't call her, don't let her see you..... Afterwards give her a call and ask how's she's doing. Then that's it!
2006-10-29 16:28:01 · answer #5 · answered by alwaysmile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always to her face, never in public, always tell her all the good qualities she has but you really must give her a reason and try to keep her calm and try to maintain at least a friendship with her if it's possible. I know it usually doesn't work but, you tried and let her get her anger out, if she needs to, let her vent and cry and yell or whatever if she needs to. Then don't leave her until you know she is safe at home or at a friends or something. Good Luck.
2006-10-29 16:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i don't think there really is an easy way. though over the phone tends to be harsh. i think if you want to have at least a friendship with her in the future, tell it to her in person. Not in school or work, maybe, but somewhere private where you can tell her without everyone staring at you. Try to be nice about it, and if she's reasonable, she'll understand.
2006-10-29 16:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by puddinhead 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well its never easy to brak up with a girl and no matter what someone always gets hurt. but i think that if you really do need to break up with a girl you must do it to her face and tell her the real reason. there is no point in lieing because they will find out the truth and it will hurt them even more. be honest and there might be a chance that you both can still be friends if thats what you want.
2006-10-29 16:20:58 · answer #8 · answered by XX-SEXY-XX 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel in a coffee shop or semi public, semi private place, and just explain why it is not working. Make sure you each have your own mode of transportation to the area.
2006-10-29 16:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and clear. Whatever it was that made you decide to break up with her, tell her. Dont leave her wondering what it was.. what she did.. was it someone else.. etc... Even if it may hurt her feelings - tell her the whole truth (breaking up with her will hurt her feelings already so you might as well be honest).
2006-10-29 16:20:02 · answer #10 · answered by !?!?! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋