I’ve heard both sides of the argument to the point where I’m totally confused. Some guys say they prefer virgins for all kinds of reasons; certain graphic sexual related aspects I won’t get into and the trust issue. And the obvious being "the first one." But, I’ve heard probably more negative remarks. For example, why waste your time with her if she won’t “put out,” she’s full of herself, she won’t be “good in bed” and she’ll become dependant on you, “too prudish” and many more, but I can’t type them all down here. I haven’t had a chance (or the guts) to ask any guy I know, but with all honesty and from your experiences, do you think guys prefer virgins or sexually experienced women? When I say sexually experienced, I don't mean promiscous by the way. I've heard that it is difficult for guys to withhold sex, so I have always wondered. I've never had a boyfriend, so I'm cluesless about a lot of things in this nature.
2006-10-29 08:32:26 · 8 answers · asked by Maureen T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are advantages to both as you've said. I think if you can respect yourself enough to hold out until marriage, more power to you. Personally, if I could marry a virgin it would be a plus, but I'm not naive to think that it is a must.
Being as experienced as I am sexually, it shouldn't be hard to get a virgin to be rather freaky, just takes patience, and gentle lovin'. We can get freakier as time goes...
2006-10-29 08:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if you like being with a guy that is experienced why would you think the opposite for a man to want the same. Men are more sexual creatures, experience makes all the difference in the world.l
2016-05-22 05:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me virginity does not matter as long as I as she willing to love me for who I am not what I am or what I have, and as long as she does not have STD, and is not involved in infidelity and is faithful and honest no matter how old I am. Well hopefully soon. The difference is that guys say they like virgins is because they are not loose or been used yet due to tightness. They like tight virginas. They like to be able to feel the vagina instead of loose ones where they don't feel the virgina as much. I don't know cause I am still a virgin. Eventhough, experience or not we still learn together. Sorry I am not much help on that.
2006-10-29 08:44:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would prefer to be with a woman who knows her way around the bed. I will teach some but not everything. I want to know that I can have fun and not worry like I am banging a pillow.
2006-10-29 08:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now in 2006,men prefer both.If there is love between the couple (man and a woman),everything is okay.Good question.
2006-10-29 08:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife was experienced.
2017-02-13 17:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iknow i like a sexually experienced girl they are so much better for lezlove
2006-10-29 08:44:34 · answer #7 · answered by im lost come and find me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
virggins..lmao..i duno why..but i wana be that one special person to take it away from them..plus..yeah..thats just my answer lol
2006-10-29 08:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by itstony 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋