what is the best way to tell ur ex that u have changed for the better and that u really want to make things work
2006-10-29 09:05:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should show her rather than tell her. Obviously something happened, or someone told her something that makes her think that yall are not a good match right now. Try seeing other people; treat them right, and try to forget about your ex. If the other girls don't work out, then you can try getting back with your ex. Now she will have proof from other girls that you are a REAL MAN and might consider getting back with you. Good luck william!!! ;)
2006-11-02 08:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 15:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by Warren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your very best to start out, just being "friends" with her. That way, she should not feel so pressured. Let her see that "maybe" you have changed and that you are trying to become a better person.
Then when you think that possibly she is seeing that you are trying to change for the better, then at that time, try to talk to her a little (feel her out), and tell her that you realized that you wanted to change for the better and are trying. Tell her that you still care for her, and tell her you'd like to see her again (as a date, not so much as a friend). See what she says. If she still has feelings for you, and if there is any chance that it may work), she will see you. If she is over you or if she has a new boyfriend, she will probably tell you she only wants to be friends.
Either way, you have learned and grown from the experience. Take a chance and go for it. You really cannot lose, since you don't have her now.
The key is: take it slowly! Don't push or pressure!
Good luck!
2006-10-29 09:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by peekie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you just said "that you have changed for the better and that you really want to make things work."
2006-10-29 09:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by carlislebum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Words are too easy. Prove it with your actions, show her how you've changed and how it's not a temporary thing. Show her that you are committed to here and prove to her that there is no one that could love her better.
2006-10-29 09:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by Dud 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Show her with the next girlfriend you get.She's a rap,move on.
2006-10-29 09:09:04 · answer #6 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just move on..theres a reson shes your ex girlfriend
2006-10-29 09:10:00 · answer #7 · answered by oxygenO 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her that. but say it to her face. but u need to be ok w/ it if she's moved on. i hope she gives u a second chance!!
2006-10-29 09:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by Emy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first by telling her, send flowers etc
2006-10-29 09:08:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actions speak louder than words. tell her, and tell her that you will show her.
2006-10-29 09:09:34 · answer #10 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋