I really like a coworker of mine. Problem is last night we were at the bar having a few drinks when she told me that she had a secret to tell me. Unfortunetly for me the secret was not exactly what I wanted to hear. She told me that she is seeing another guy from work, however she hasn't told anyone else besides her mom and brother about this guy. . Then she tells me that she loves me and gives me a hug. I'm pretty sure she liked me before but I didn't make a move because we work together. The problem is she is so nice to me and we have so much in common that I feel like we should be together. But of course she only wants me as a friend now. Should I just keep a professional relationship with her or should I remain the friend that she wants? Keep in mind I have never really let her know how I feel about her.
2006-10-29 08:57:42 · 4 answers · asked by Nasty Boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should distance yourself and just be professional. If you have feelings for her, it will be painful for you to hear how she is doing with that other guy.
2006-10-29 09:01:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let things flow naturally and maybe it will turn into a relationship
2006-10-29 17:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by SEXI LADY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she thinks of you as a friend now so dont spoil what she has by telling her how you feel about her.
2006-10-29 17:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by Obria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you missed your chance, if you like her and want to be her friend be her friend, if not keep it professional.
2006-10-29 17:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋