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First of all, I really would like to make clear that I'm not some kind of perv.
There's this girl I like who's about 17 and I am 25. She's working behind a cash register and I regularly visit the store (to do some serious shopping. I'm not a stalker) I think she's very beautiful and noticed that she's also flirting with me. Sometimes she even blushes lightly. But I'm afraid to take action because I think of possible consequences. Like for instance, she might still be under 18. Do you think this is a problem?

2006-10-29 08:44:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

14 answers

I think that if you like each other, the age difference isn't an issue, but the fact that she's a minor and you're not might be. Start getting to know her on a friendly level, then wait until she's 18 to ask her on a date.

2006-10-29 08:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by calliope320 4 · 1 0

I would make sure that she is 18 or wait until she turns 18. You may find as a 25 year old guy that an 18 year old may be kinda hard to date, for example, you guys really can't go out to bars or anything like for a couple of years. I would think that someone that age would be annoying, talking about all that highschool stuff. But if you really like it could work, I would just make sure that she is 18.

2006-10-29 16:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yes, find out how old she is and wait until she is 18. She's is too young for you anyway. You might be dealing with things like highschool. Like driving her there and picking her up. Not cool. If my daughter did that she would be in some serious trouble. Do you really want to be dealing with her dad and all those other kind of problems? Wait until she's 18.

2006-10-29 16:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ask her her age, if she is over 18 ask her out, if not at least wait till she is. and no the difference between an 18 year old girl and a 25 year old guy is not as big as you think itis.

2006-10-29 16:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0 0

keep seeing her at the store, maybe ask to meet her parents, sounds flaky but it may work if your intentions are really true...8 years is really not that much difference...you two probably are on the same maturity level and could possibly have a lot in common

2006-10-29 16:48:23 · answer #5 · answered by regina 2 · 1 0

No...There is no problem with your age differences...
Even if she is 17...You will probably be fine and she will
be 18 soon....Don't worry about it unless she is 16....
I was 27and my girlfriend was 17...We married soon after
she turned 18, I was 27...

2006-10-29 16:52:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

~wait till she's 18, or whatever the legal age is where you are~

2006-10-29 16:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by pattiwish 4 · 0 0

when you see her again ask her how old she is. and if she 18 then its not a problem. good luck

2006-10-29 16:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by jesse 2 · 0 0

JUST TELL HER WHEN SHE'S 18 YOU'D LIKE TO ASK HER OUT. THAT'S WHAT MY FRIENDS DID.

2006-10-29 16:46:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ask her when she turn 18..... All u have to do is ask

2006-10-29 16:46:05 · answer #10 · answered by Alan l 1 · 0 0

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