Singles & Dating - 26 October 2006

Some details...
He & I have known that each other existed since I was a freshman, and he was a junior ( 3 yrs ago ) But it wasn't until this summer when I worked with him, and my best friend, that we REALLY got to know each other. We talk sometimes, its casual. But then my friend tells me that him & their cousin were talking about me, he asks about me, blah blah blah.

He's really cool but I'm a little bit confused if he sees me as a little sister, or someone he might potentially like/does like now.

Any way to tell the difference? Because he's pretty sneaky about letting people know he likes them, lets just say he's not a huge flirt, and neither am I so what should I do? & what do you think he thinks?

HEADS UP:
please don't give me any advice like "it might ruin your relationship with your BFF, or " it might make things weird between you and your BFF" or "tell your BFF first" or "Try talking to your BFF, she could ask her brother for you"


thanks you guys are awesome!

2006-10-26 12:53:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i broke up with him august 20th (the day before i started school) because he would go long periods of time ignoring me (first the whole summer, than a month) and i need a little bit more attention than that. he didn't care but came the very next day to pick up his stuff at my house. we are still friends (emailing). on tuesday, he asked if i wanted to go to the fair with him cuz none of his friends wanted to go. i was bored so i said yes. on the drive there we talk like old friends and have a blast. then when we were walking in the fairgrounds, he holds my hand. i jerked my hand out of his and explained that we are no longer dating. his excuse was "i know". then while we were in line for a ride, he starts hugging me and gets all touchy feely. i again say that he cant do that anymore and that it makes me uncomfortable. he dosen't think so. this reoccured the whole night. when he dropped me off, i was on my guard so he couldn't kiss me, but he says he misses me and wants me back. help?

2006-10-26 12:51:45 · 8 answers · asked by Jugglingmidget06 4

im in the seventh grade, every where i turn my friends are getting asked out, i havn't had a boyfriend which i should have one by now i mean im old enough and im really depressed i mean i really like this boy but i can't ask him out cause he's already going out wit a nother girl and i think its wrong for a girl to ask a guy out. i mean what do i need to do to show all the boys that im really desperate? HELP!

2006-10-26 12:50:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is it that attracts younger women to older guys, even twice their age?

2006-10-26 12:49:28 · 42 answers · asked by hollywood71@verizon.net 5

theres a carnival tonight and im gonna c one of the guys i lik there. how do i get him to kiss me? he said hes not afraid, but then wats the holdup?

2006-10-26 12:49:09 · 21 answers · asked by Aly-Gator! 1

whenever we want to know anything about them its like there scared. Once u talk to them and you kind of get to know them and you say stupid things its never the same anymore i hate that its so stupid. why do they have to be like that???

2006-10-26 12:48:50 · 20 answers · asked by Evelyn 1

2006-10-26 12:47:56 · 21 answers · asked by Daree 2

me and my boyfriend been dating for 10 months and since i had school on weekdays i would spend time with him and we always would have sex.we had broke up during the summertime and got back together at the end of august.ever since then we only had sex twice.we dont have sex like that anymore.on his phone a girl sent a text msg on his phone and it said"what's good boo imma call you when i get outa school aight" but he didnt respond back.i asked him do he mess with her and he said"no"do you think he is having sex with her and other girls?

2006-10-26 12:46:54 · 19 answers · asked by SHANNON H 1

I don't care about instinct ****, it doesn't mean we should have to just say, fine, I accept that I am not the only one that my boyfriend/husband looks at sexually!!! Girls, maybe we should start doing the same thing!! Oh wait, I don't want to. I just want it to be us, and that's f*cking it!!!

2006-10-26 12:46:24 · 11 answers · asked by Green Tea Happy 3

is there an single females in the brighton eara 35-45 that can make a single man same age happy and feel wanted

2006-10-26 12:45:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a guy doesnt care about you anymore, why dont they just tell you and break it off instead of showing less interest in you and still being with you. im not sure i understand why this is... please help!

2006-10-26 12:45:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Had a bit of a misunderstanding w/ the gf last week, got a little chaotic, no arguments or anything, but the relationship looked sketchy for a few days. Saw her last night, told her I was sorry, she said some stuff, too that I wanted to hear, and left on seemingly good terms, including a good good night kiss. Anyways, tomorrow's Friday and she's going out of town w/ some girlfriends of hers, though she doesn't really want to (only going 'cause of who was asking) so I'm was going to send flowers to her work and just tell her I hope she has a good time. Would that help show her I meant what I told her (last night) and that I still really want her?

2006-10-26 12:43:12 · 25 answers · asked by randyken 6

I have this one girl in my College class that I really wan tto get to know. I think she is very cute and, she sits opposite side of class from me and she doesnt talk to anyone in the class neither do I. She doesnt tallk to anyone hardly at all going to class to class. so I guess she isnt popular. I keep looking at her in class hope she notices that she is being admired Who knows. I know I should go up to her and say hi, but Im afriad what she might think its werid or uncomfortable somone she dont know randomly say hi and introduce myself. She might feel uncomfortable thinking Im hitting on her (which I am), its hard if you understand what Im talking about. I am a very shy type Guy. so Im 20 years old and should be looking for someone I want to spend the rest of my life with. I really think she is special for some reason. Its half way through semester so if ANYONE can help me out on any advice how to Talk to her and and get to know her and have her like me. THANK YOU!

2006-10-26 12:42:20 · 9 answers · asked by Magukev 1

Safe sex of course.I think that the problem is a lot more than the sex.

2006-10-26 12:42:04 · 6 answers · asked by Nevada S 1

2006-10-26 12:41:22 · 8 answers · asked by DOMiNiCAN MAMi 1

If u r in school, and a girl comes up to u telling u that she likes u alot. what do u answer? how do u react? specially if u like her too.

2006-10-26 12:39:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

hey guys wut do u look 4 in chicks like looks and personality?

2006-10-26 12:39:10 · 6 answers · asked by fuzzy_bubbles_13 2

he's nice to me and when I said I might join chorus he said yay and he said he felt bad for me witha really seriouse face on so does he or doesn't he?

2006-10-26 12:37:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

parents will be home dads a policeman ...my golden rule is u have to be 16 to date what do u think is this a date and or am i just being old fashion post some age close to what u may be please lost good mom here ty

2006-10-26 12:37:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

he did drugs in the past so thats why i cant trust him an he cheated on me before in the past an i forgot about it ya know i dont know why he cant forget about mine was a long time ago so

2006-10-26 12:37:00 · 4 answers · asked by BabyGirl 1

Fallen in love for the first time- with my best friend. Head over heals. He doesn't love me- but he wants to remain best friends. I ache every day. I love him so much. Is there any point in hoping that his feelings might change? If not, will this crippling pain ever go away? Go on, lay the truth on me...

2006-10-26 12:36:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've started chatting to someone on an internet chat room & don't know whether or not to send him my true email address (just started chatting). How soon is too soon?

2006-10-26 12:35:48 · 33 answers · asked by Bubbly Blonde 4

*that she will reject me or it will ruin our friendship

2006-10-26 12:34:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've fallen head over heals for a married man. He's everything I've ever wanted in a guy except he's married. He is in the middle of an ugly divorce and was when I met him. But his wife and him still live together for "financial purposes." I'm pretty much a dirty little secret to his friends and family until the divorce is final, and it could drag on for a long time. He treats me better than I ever imagined being treated, except for the secret thing, and I really care for him. Am I kidding myself here or does this affair have a chance?

2006-10-26 12:34:37 · 25 answers · asked by KatieK 1

like i THINK my boyfriend is a good kisser but im not sure oh and how do i become a good kisser?

2006-10-26 12:34:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

people say that all the time and i don't know what it means
does homo stand for homsexuality or what?????
i'm confused here lol

2006-10-26 12:34:12 · 15 answers · asked by IHeartSprinkles 1

i have an ex and i still care for him months later but then i have these great guys that want to go out with me. should i keep crying over my ex or should i try to get out there with these guys? everytime i see my ex i want to cry and today i wanted to throw up. i was sick the rest of the day. guys espacially do you think he is worth everything i am going through cuz of him?

2006-10-26 12:33:27 · 20 answers · asked by Daisy Carlos 2

ok so my bf doesnt call me as much or text anymore, I am always the one that has to call first and always the one who has to iniciate things, but when I ask him straight out do you want to break up he says no and he still says he loves me, yet he acts distint, im totally confused, we been together for a little over a year and when we first started dating he was all into me, he does call me but not as much as before and he never sounds entusiastic on the phone anymore... what does this mean.. help, serious answers please!

2006-10-26 12:33:14 · 12 answers · asked by Dreamer 1

I thought he liked me, and i wasnt sure if that was a good thing or not, but then I decided I liked him, so it was! But then he started being all non-talkative, so I wasn't feeling so good about it anymore, and just as I was about to post this he's started being talkative again and I'm pretty sure I DO like him! Aaaargh! Help :(

2006-10-26 12:32:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

cody, he is a really cute guty in my uvms middle school. I dont but he is really cute and want to go out with him, bad. he looks nice not mean. how do i get this super cutie to notice me?

2006-10-26 12:31:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous