if a guy doesnt care about you anymore, why dont they just tell you and break it off instead of showing less interest in you and still being with you. im not sure i understand why this is... please help!
2006-10-26 12:45:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Insurance.
2006-10-26 12:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by edward_the_l0ngshanks 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they want you there to fall back on until something else better comes along.. OR maybe he's trying to hint to YOU to break up with him so he doesn't have to... Get him alone and talk to him face to face and ask him why YOU should continue to stay with someone that doesn't show interest and care about you anymore.. If he gives you some lame excuse do him a favor and end it...
2006-10-26 13:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by xcura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are really weird! The guy may not like you anymore, but he doesn't want to be a jackass. He doesn't want to hurt you. I know, it seems that the way they do it makes the pain come slowly and last longer. You should talk to him.Tell him you sense that he's loosing interest, and you'd still be friends (would you?) if you decided to break up. Make it a mutual break up. Sorry guys have to be so strange!!! And good luck!!
2006-10-26 12:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by save trestles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have no idea what the hell they really want to do, so they take it out on their gf until she either leaves or goes clean off. The best thing to do is leave guys like those alone quickly once you've reached out and tried to help them. You can't make someone love you or treat you right, so once you do your part in trying to work it out and they still act a fool, it's best to move on sooner rather than later. Who knows what good guys you could be missing out on, waiting for this azzhole to get his shyt together?
2006-10-26 12:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by Hpnotiq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The clue comes from your screen name "Sad Girl." Sure he shows up now and then for what he wants, when it's convenient for him. No one needs someone who makes them feel the way you feel. Cut your losses; there is someone out there that God created especially for you! Respect yourself.
2006-10-26 12:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by Annamaria 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they want their cake and eat it too! Be strong and break it off yourself you'll feel better with time I promise and you'll find someone who'll love you for you not because you convenient.
2006-10-26 13:08:31 · answer #6 · answered by Honey Bee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/c they don't and never have respected you. If you feel lead on, stand up for yourself and drop his sorry ***!
2006-10-26 12:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we are hoping to keep you around as a booty call
2006-10-26 12:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be sad that just means he still wants some booty
2006-10-26 12:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by pussycat_bubbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋