can't build up the courage to ask out my friend because of wat everyone else will think and i'm scared *

Question

*that she will reject me or it will ruin our friendship

also i don't even thinks she see's me as the relationship type because she allways talkin to me about her ex's and people who she likes now

also if i ever did build up the courage to ask her out there is never a good time she is always surrounded by other people

Answer 1

for all you know she could return those feelings. if you go through your life not doing things because you are scared of them, you will lead a very boring life. just make sure that you can handle it if she says no. good luck!

Answer 2

Two things: Life is full of risks, and if you do not try because you are scared, then you don't live your life.
Secondly, who cares about what everyone else thinks? People will always talk about you, no matter how good a person you are--they talk because they are jealous and because they want to be in your business. Furthermore, in life no one else but you puts the bread on your table--not everyone else who should not even be of concern to your decisions. With other words, ask and do not worry about what everyone else thinks and don't worry about what the answer might be---because if you do not ask you will always wonder if you should have asked....good luck

Answer 3

If you are that scared and that worried about what friends think...then you aren't mature enough that you put too much on what others think. When you are more sure of yourself you will have eough confidence in yourself and NOT put your personal value in others.

Part of dating is rejection. You need to learn to deal with it. If you fear it too much you might not ever have a girlfriend.

It will only destroy your friendship if you let it.

I have personally had to tell a good man friend of mine that I love him as a friend and not as a bf, and we deal well with it. He still teases once in awhile about it. But we communicate well and it hasn't destroyed the friendshiip.

I know lots of couples who are now married or in long term relationships with guys who were just friends to begin with.

It never hurts to try. Flirt a little. ocassionally touch her hand or her arm. Look her deep in her eyes and grin. Use subtil hints. Then ask her do a movie or something. If she says she doesn't feel that way about you - in a romantic way....don't let it destroy yourself.

Answer 4

Well, does it seem she likes you? If so, give it a shot! You only live once, and you shouldn't ever be scared to ask out a girl! What if she likes you too, and it crushes her to think that you don't like her because you never ask her out? Just do it!! And don't ever worry what everyone else will think, because it's your personal life, and something that makes you happy. Good Luck!

Answer 5

Why dont you have a long talk with her ask her how she feels about you and her relationship if you think it could go further ask her forget what your friends think get her opinion *she might really like you!*

Answer 6

First you need to understand that you will never be good friends later in life.

So make your move and don't worry about it.

Answer 7

dont be scared, theres a first time for everything if you really like this person then try to overcome your fear.

Answer 8

That's one of those things where you gotta swallow your pride and do it. Have you talked to any of your friends about what they think? And how about her friends?

Answer 9

If you dont ask,answer is always a no.

Answer 10

well you never know i could have been ment to be but if it
doesn't work out you could be out one friend ....your choice