Had a bit of a misunderstanding w/ the gf last week, got a little chaotic, no arguments or anything, but the relationship looked sketchy for a few days. Saw her last night, told her I was sorry, she said some stuff, too that I wanted to hear, and left on seemingly good terms, including a good good night kiss. Anyways, tomorrow's Friday and she's going out of town w/ some girlfriends of hers, though she doesn't really want to (only going 'cause of who was asking) so I'm was going to send flowers to her work and just tell her I hope she has a good time. Would that help show her I meant what I told her (last night) and that I still really want her?
2006-10-26 12:43:12 · 25 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES! Show her that care, and you're sorry.
2006-10-26 12:46:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that this is a good idea and that you should totally do it. You should also let her know that you care by giving her a little extra spending money for her trip. Also give her a number that she can reach you at and don't tell her to hesitate to call you if she is having an awful time, but don't spend too much money on the flowers because since she will be gone she won't get to apriciate them as much. I hope that this helps.
2006-10-26 19:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by Coolfunnygal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what this was all about but I do know it could only help. Do it just to put a warm loving feeling in her heart. It would be even better to send the flowers and then the next time you see her, greet her with a card and maybe a single rose.
Please do, write your feeling's inside of the card though...lol...for real though!
Good luck!
2006-10-26 19:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by lol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not. Unless this is a little insurance policy to prevent her from chatting up other guys when she's away because of the tiff.
(She won't be around to enjoy the flowers because she's going out of town, so get something inexpensive)
2006-10-26 19:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
showing her you meant it doesn;t only work by sending flowers and the sorry. show her you mean it. it also depends on what you said. if she really doesn't want to go out with the girlfriends get her to have a night in with you to show her how much you appreciate her.
2006-10-26 19:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know what you did to her, but I know that if I was in her place, even if my boyfriend hadn't made me mad, I would love to get flowers before I went away. Honestly, who doesn't love to walk in and find a large vase full of pretty flowers waiting for them.
I say go ahead and do it. And if she still was mad at you then, I'm sure she would forget all that had happened.
2006-10-26 19:45:46 · answer #6 · answered by Kelsie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a really nice idea...as long as you are no manipulating her to stay in town instead of going with her friends.
Yep flowers are a good thing!
2006-10-26 19:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Along with the flowers send her a really sweet card that expresses all your true feelings about her.
2006-10-26 19:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, the flowers will show her that you are thinking about her. I hope you are sincere, because flowers generally say that when a relationship becomes sticky.
2006-10-26 19:47:59 · answer #9 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be a really sweet thing to do. She would know that you care and it will make her weekend better. She will be thinking of you the whole time and will be so excited to see you after the trip.
2006-10-26 19:48:56 · answer #10 · answered by sea shell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is an adorable idea. If it was me I would LOVE it. When my husband and I were dating it didn't matter when I got flowers but he got them for me whenver he could and they were just as special everytime. Plus this puts in the effort to let her know you still love her.
2006-10-26 19:46:00 · answer #11 · answered by anneplustrevor 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋