ok so my bf doesnt call me as much or text anymore, I am always the one that has to call first and always the one who has to iniciate things, but when I ask him straight out do you want to break up he says no and he still says he loves me, yet he acts distint, im totally confused, we been together for a little over a year and when we first started dating he was all into me, he does call me but not as much as before and he never sounds entusiastic on the phone anymore... what does this mean.. help, serious answers please!
2006-10-26 12:33:14 · 12 answers · asked by Dreamer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to ask, you already know the answer. There is a book that applies here called "He's just not that into you" by Greg Behrendt, and Liz Tuccillo. I hope you find someone worthy of all the love you have to give. He's out there, and he will find you!! My mother used to tell me "get with somebody who loves your dirty drawers, not you loving theirs. When a man loves you, you don't have to ask! He will do all that is in his power to make you happy. I pray for true love in your life.
2006-10-26 13:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by music 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually you can tell if a "break-up" is in the making by all the signs & signals that you just pointed-out. But still & all it doesn't have to necessarily mean that . Like you your-self said; that when you do ask him if he wants to break-up...he tells you no & that he still loves you. And i am sure he does still love you. It could just mean that the relationship has just become a bit "dis-enchanting" for him right now and perhaps you should just work at trying to conjure-up some ideas for things that you two could do together that's both, different and yet exciting . Be it fun or romantic...or even both! Even "suprise" him with your plans if need be.
You have to keep "fuel" in the fire if you really expect to keep the "flames" burning ! Smile.
Here's wishing you luck !
2006-10-26 19:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by anthony J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel. My ex boyfriend never really called me as much as he used to. Ur bf, my guess is that he doesnt have that first love spark that he used to.My mother is going through a realationship like that.They have been datin for abot 4 years now.Thats different though.One night show him the true real lovely goddess he knows u are.Like go to the movies, etc.U know something like that.U dont have to have sex just to show some love.
2006-10-26 19:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by roxysurfer13194 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know how u feel.. but remember we females are usually the more expressive ones.. we feel like we need to hear and say those 3 words more often for reassurance.. if i guy says it he means it he feels u should just trust in his love and know it with out him telling u every 5 minutes. that is one big difference between the two sexes. u know him better than anyone u should be able to feel and see the love in his eyes and the way he touches u...u may just be over analyzing things...relax if he didnt want u he'd tell ya.....u push 2 hard u may push him away.. insecurity is very unattractive.
2006-10-26 19:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by wildspirit1313 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him.. Either answer will at least give you some peace. But from a guys point of view, sounds like he is moving on.
2006-10-26 19:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he has lost interest and that is a clear sign of a breakup
2006-10-26 19:36:57 · answer #6 · answered by Obria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get the cold shoulder, less attention and they want to see alot less of you then before.....and the excuses why they can't get together with you!
2006-10-26 19:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by cshell442003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just needs some time to himself. dont be so clingy. guys don't like clingy- trust me. bak off a little and wiat for him to come to u. make him work for it a little
2006-10-26 19:35:29 · answer #8 · answered by neverland22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's immature and gets bored easily.
He's bored of you - stop being so insecure and move on!
2006-10-26 19:35:15 · answer #9 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave him before you get dumped.since he is not showing any affection anymore, he's showing it to someone.LEAVE!
2006-10-26 19:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by Texas gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋