i have an ex and i still care for him months later but then i have these great guys that want to go out with me. should i keep crying over my ex or should i try to get out there with these guys? everytime i see my ex i want to cry and today i wanted to throw up. i was sick the rest of the day. guys espacially do you think he is worth everything i am going through cuz of him?
2006-10-26 12:33:27 · 20 answers · asked by Daisy Carlos 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There always a better guys out there.
2006-10-26 12:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by pussycat_bubbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing that you can do in this situation is to meet other guys. Not only will they give you a nice ego boost, but they do a pretty good job of keeping your mind off the other person, especially if you two have a lot in common. And who knows?....he could be the guy of your dreams if you give him a chance.
Also, you can't let your ex keep controlling your life, which sounds like what he's doing. Eventually you'll have to move on a realize that you can do so much better....even if it seems like you can't. One day you'll meet your soul mate and come to find that all this worrying about your ex was a laugh. But you won't find that someone if you're still crying about the other guy. Just go out there and meet some hot guys!!!!! Good luck!
2006-10-26 12:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with the new guys. If you two aren't together and can't be, there's probably a good reason. Why on earth would you WANT to waste your time crying over an ex? If you can't help it, then do it, but you need to be trying at least to get over it. It can take time, but try not to dwell on it. Get really busy so you have less time to think about it.
2006-10-26 12:36:24 · answer #3 · answered by cb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No guy is worth the pain. If you want to go out with one of the great guys, do it. They'll probably make you happier than you ex ever did. But I know what you mean — after my sort-of boyfriend and I "broke up," he was all I could think about. We're civil to each other now, but I don't give a damn about him anymore. It helps to find another guy to focus on . . . or, even better, something other than guys.
2006-10-26 13:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey.....Welcome 2 my world. He isn't worth ur tears. I still cry over my ex but i know that he isn't worth it......He's dating a really close friend of mine, Ashley . It really hurts 2 see both of them really happy together and then thinking of the times that HE AND I were happy together.......But we've become friends over time and it was really sweet when he asked me if i wud be OK with him dating Ashley. I hope that we'll get back together in the future, cos i miss him lots and still love him lots!!!!! GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-26 12:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer something is worth crying over, hon. i comprehend often times issues exchange into very painful, and you basically can not help yet cry over it, and that's ok. do exactly no longer enable it persist. His rejection is in simple terms God's way of telling you that there is a guy much greater suitable obtainable finding for you.
2016-10-16 10:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you still want to be with the ex? I hate to think of you being upset over this. But if you still want to be with your ex-boyfriend, then you probably shuldn't get into any new relationships with other people.
But please, try and be more optimistic. Talk to a few of these guys and at least be their friends. Maybe their attention can help you get over your ex.
2006-10-26 12:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are never worth your tears. How many guys do you know who shed tears for a girl? Take it easy, go out with other guys and enjoy life. Don't put yourself through so much unnecessary pain.
2006-10-26 12:38:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if he was a great guy and he died. If your ex was mean to you and didnt care about you, why should you still feel terrible about it? Forget about him and start seeing these other guys who want to date you and dont compare your ex to these new guys.
2006-10-26 12:37:27 · answer #9 · answered by ernie_casarez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young Lady; somethings are meant to be and somethings are not. You sound like a caring person but, Ms it is time to move on. Just take things slowly and before you know it it will not effect you at all.
Good Luck.
2006-10-26 12:38:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you know if you are pinning for him is worth all the tears it sounds to me you about a 20 second lee-way from begging this man for mercy...if you cant get over him, chickie then ask for a second chance...its that simple dont kill yourself over this ...when i was about to divorce my husband it hurt everything hurt i miss him but he pissed me off and then i couldnt help but call him 10 times a day just to hear his voice...yes to me he was the one ...so if you feel like you cant live without him, tell him and if he says no then grieve about it and move on ...i know its simple to say it but its harder to do it but im sure you will get through it ...hes not out of your system yet ... i know because i was there once...what are you waiting for?...dont read the other entries...pick up that phone...its desperate but desperate times call for desperate measures...but please dont lose your dignity in doing this ...huh babe?
2006-10-26 12:41:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋