im in the seventh grade, every where i turn my friends are getting asked out, i havn't had a boyfriend which i should have one by now i mean im old enough and im really depressed i mean i really like this boy but i can't ask him out cause he's already going out wit a nother girl and i think its wrong for a girl to ask a guy out. i mean what do i need to do to show all the boys that im really desperate? HELP!
2006-10-26 12:50:54 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relax, he will come soon and then when they start coming you will want to be alone.
2006-10-26 12:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by Vernee B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O.K. Tappiegirl, 7th grade are you? First of all you never, I mean never.......... let a boy know that you are feeling desperate. (Take that bit of info through life with you). Next you need to act more confident in yourself (take that info through life with you also). There is nothing in the books that says you should have a boyfriend by now. I normally don't share to much of my own personal life, but Tappiegirl I didn't have a boyfriend until I was in the 10th grade. Please don't get in such a hurry to grow up, love and relationships sometime hurt, they can be very painful. So take your time sweet girl, and let things happen as they happen.
Hugs to you
Texas girl
2006-10-26 13:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be desperate. I know it is harder than it sounds, but stay strong. You are still young and not everyone develops at the same time. Boys are going to be boys. You will find someone when you least expect it and are not pressing the issue. Find some hobbies that will put you around guys and will actually give you the chance to get to know them and before long you will find a boyfriend.
2006-10-26 12:55:18 · answer #3 · answered by postalclerkgso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing dont show them ur desperate!! I no how u feel i was 13 b4 i got my 1st b/f i thought it would never happen but it did so dont worry it will happen to u just dont be afraid to be urself around a guy dont act like some one else to make them happy u'll just end up getting hurt that way but dont be afraid to ask some one out its very common now a days for girls to ask guys out its no big deal if ur really tired of waiting then get up the nerve and ask some one already!!!!ps dont listen to the 1st answer u got that guy is a *** hole!!!
2006-10-26 12:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by Erica D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that was just like you when she was en eighth grader. The guy she likes is also my best-friend, I kept telling her that don't go out with him because I knew although he is the bustiest friend ever in the world but he is absolutely not a good boy-friend. However, she never listened to me and asked him out, what ended up happening was he broke up with her the day before their date.
So my suggestion is that make sure the boy doesn't play any girl or having too many girl-friends, other wise, you may tell him that you like him.
P.S. It is not weird for a girl to ask a guy out.
2006-10-26 13:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by littlehappy_21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not need a boyfriend to be happy, right now that's what it seems like. but you need to make you happy first ...depression can be a horrible thing am 24, and am taking meds. for that right now. talk to your mom about or next time you're with your doctor. when i was your age a remember telling my mom i wanted to become a nun!! because of the same reason...so i know how you feel....remember this tho dont ever change who you are because of a boy....try to develop your flirtatious side....be sweet & always a lady....thats what i leanr from my days...and NO its not wrong for a girl to ask a boy out, c'mon what century do you live in?
2006-10-26 13:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg.. don't listen to that dr guy >.>.. drugs don;t help trust me..s ee love and attraction is something so many people think they can force.. but u know thts inner... u can't guys to be attracted to u.. see ur not being urself.. u have to be urself and just let a guy who will coem by one day start to get attached to u... u get hit when u least expect it.. n girl... chill ur only in seventh grade... its all jsut puppy love.... nothing..else.. dont be lonely.. and just be urself... by tellign the gus ur desperate thats showing them ur a looser... and just want a bf for use.. u aint looking for love or a relation... just go with the flow.. enjoy life.. girl u still little enjoy it cus relatiosn and love hurt... trust me.. im telling u... n nce u hit high school it gonna get serious i suggest u be happy that ur still single.. ahng wiht ur gfs.. chill hv fun... enjoy it sis.... i swear.. u don't want to get into that this early... cus heart braks hurt liek a ***** lolz... trust me... wait till one of ur friends.. rely gets into someone and is heart broken u'll see it.... jus enjoy hv fun.. and be urself.. there is soemone for everybody.. soem people fiind them earlier ten others.... n its not even a strt for u yet.. so don't worry be happy.. life is too short.. but in love and realtions.. its long.. and complicated.... LIVE IT UP!! while u hv the chance.. :P
2006-10-26 13:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, ur not the only 1 with this kind of situation.last year in the 6th grade it seemed like every1 had a boyfriend but me.SO what i think you should do is
-luk for another cute boy & ask 1 of your friends if they can hook you up with him.
-Just wait 4 da right guy
-smile & wave at your crush
*****P.S:GOOD LUCK GIRL!!!
2006-10-26 12:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by ღ §HΘR†¥ ღ ™ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirt, flash a beautiful smile and look at him constantly! He will notice sooner or later and he will probaly have feelings and say she is really paying attention to me let me go ask her out! Good Luck!
2006-10-26 12:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by sexyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,stop showing all the boys that your so desperate,then they might get the idea.
2006-10-26 12:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST,, NEVER BE DESPERATE. BIG TURN OFF, THAT IS PROBABLY WHAT YOU ARE SENDING OUT IN YOUR PERSONALITY. SELF RESPECT, YOU DON'T GET IT FROM A GUY WANTING YOU, YOU GET IT FROM YOURSELF, WORK ON THAT FIRST, GUYS CAN BE JERKS, AT THAT AGE THEY ARE STUPID. AND NEVER SLEEP WITH A GUY CUZ YOU THINK HE WILL LIKE YOU, HE WON'T AND WILL DUMP YOU. BE STONG AND BE HAPPY WITH YOU, IT WILL SHOW TO OTHER AND THEY WILL WANT TO BE AROUND YOU.
2006-10-26 12:58:33 · answer #11 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋