I don't care about instinct ****, it doesn't mean we should have to just say, fine, I accept that I am not the only one that my boyfriend/husband looks at sexually!!! Girls, maybe we should start doing the same thing!! Oh wait, I don't want to. I just want it to be us, and that's f*cking it!!!
2006-10-26 12:46:24 · 11 answers · asked by Green Tea Happy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how many girls feel the way I do....they just want to be the only one their guy looks at sexually, and has no interest in looking at other guys sexually themselves
2006-10-26 12:47:30 · update #1
I agree, I have no desire to look at anyone else and it would make me feel inadequate for my man to look at another woman sexually.
2006-10-26 13:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree. Nothing makes me angrier than when my boyfriend checks out other girls, or looks at porn. He knows that, I've even threatened to dump him for looking at porn. I think the reason why we hate it so much is because it makes us feel like maybe he wants what hes looking at more than he wants what he already has, and that's not fair to us girls. It's especially true with porn, because they have these huge fake boobs and what not, and people just aren't like that, and it makes us feel like crap because were not living up to his standards. If this is something that is going on between you and your boyfriend, you really should tell him how you feel...guys are pretty stupid sometimes, but they know that they have a girlfriend, and they know that that crap is unnacceptable. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 8 months, and whenever we fight, that's usually why. Guys just don't get it, that having a girlfriend means that she's yours and she needs your full attention.
2006-10-26 19:55:59 · answer #2 · answered by Kaitlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okk i may not get my ten point for this but what the hell.. it is ok to look at the menu and not order.. think about it for a minute do you ever look at a good looking guy and think if i was single damm ... well guys are the same way it dont mean they love us less or they are thinking about being with the other person.. maybe your one in a million who do not feel that way..and that is fine , but most of us are not like that, and maybe you have found the person that turns your head and no one elas can compare ..great..plzz dont let it be a obession with you women and men are going to look if they want to ... but it is wrong for them to make comment and leer
2006-10-26 19:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not natural, if you think that a man will only look at you and only you sexually then you're a bit high maintainance, you have to realize, yea, you may think its bull, but nature will always prevail, you cant change a guy from doint that, if you do, hes gonna think you're smothering him. My boyfriend looks at other women sexually, but does he cheat, no, is he a wonderful boyfriend to me, yes. I know im the only one he comes home with, so i dont care he can look all he wants, he loves me and wants me, and i love him and want him, hey i look too, but i never touch.
2006-10-26 19:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by magickitty0621 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like your question there girl. You're absolutely right u know. A man should remain faithful to his wife, or girl friend and to her only. As the song goes I only have eyes for you. It's also a 2 way street. For me at least. I only want her looking at me sexually and me only. It's not selfish it's the RIGHT way of doing things. Thanks for asking.
2006-10-26 19:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say but it is true. How can you stop a person from being human. It's the person who stays true that's the keeper. I mean if he oogles over another woman in front of you that's a different story, otherwise I say deal with it.
2006-10-26 19:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by dianee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah your right but if we mention it they think your to possessive and trying to control them,but when you do it,it wrong you shouldn't look at smile talk or even breathe on another man in there eyes we are theres and we've got them so we dont need to look but men they say they need a little eye candy and thats it
2006-10-26 19:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not wrong but its only natural for men and alot of women to do this but men shouldnt do it right in front of the woman they are with,they should have some maintain some control over this or atleast stay 2 steps behind their woman when they are out so she doesnt see him looking,thats what i do anyway
2006-10-26 19:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by k70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. Everytime my hubby goes online he looks at porn and it drives me nuts. He's like 'its not like i'm sleeping with any of them' but its almost the same. It seems like the only good guy is a gay one. Atleast we can look at the stuff with them.
2006-10-26 19:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by Tigger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. My man is the only person I honestly think of sexually, and wanna be with.
2006-10-26 19:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋