Singles & Dating - 19 October 2006

i m committed...but a very dear frnd of mine is getting very serious for me as he loves me.he doesnt knw i m committed n i dnt wanna tell him..it will hurt him like hell.i m giving him another reason related to family..which is genuine also.he is terrible n very gloomy n i m sad too.i cant say yes to him in any condition..but i m feeling very very very bad n guilty that i m hurting him n he is so very sad. how can i help him to overcome this thing as i cnt see him like this

2006-10-19 20:40:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well after my ex gf and I broke up she got a new bf...she ended up leaving him because she still had feelings for me but then she ended up lying to me and getting back together with him...we dated for a year and never had sex...and she dates this new guy for 3 months and has sex with him (we were both virgins). then at 5am sun night I get a call from her bf informing me of all this...anyone been burned this bad before?

2006-10-19 20:37:06 · 21 answers · asked by A Sad Guy... 1

2006-10-19 20:36:30 · 19 answers · asked by three6ty 4

i am a teenage girl and i lyk this teenage boi but theres 1 problem i have another boi hu reali lyks me and tells me he loves me and want 2 spend the rest of his life with me i lyk him hes a close m8. hu shud i go 4?

2006-10-19 20:36:10 · 18 answers · asked by beci 3

2006-10-19 20:34:38 · 7 answers · asked by blah 2

After a guy has told his gf tht he doesnt miss her but...the girl had always proved him tht he is the only guy in her life, that she misses him....the guy is sure tht she can never leave him as she is attached to him... and he keeps criticising her...THE GIRL SENDS A TEXT MESG TO HIM ATLAST THT -"SHE DOESNT MISS HIM, HE IS NOT THAT INNOCENT GUY SHE ALWAYS WANTED TO BE WITH N HAS NO FEELINGS FOR HIM".BUT THE GUY REPIES "OK"....THEN HE SENDS A MESG AFTER 3 DAYS THT ONLY 3 MONTHS N 17 DAYS R LEFT FOR HER BIRTHDAY. THE GIRL DOESNT REPLY N THE BOY ALSO HASN'T CONTACTED SINCE 5 DAYS NOW. WILL HE FEEL HER ABSENCE N IMPORTANCE??? WILL HE THINK OF COMING BACK TO HER...

2006-10-19 20:34:05 · 2 answers · asked by saikiena 1

2006-10-19 20:31:44 · 11 answers · asked by freightliner357 3

A few months back, I broke up with my boyfriend for a month. During that month, he kept trying to get back with me, and I didn't answer his calls in the first week or 2. I kept ignoring him, and he started to stalk me. I also started to hang out with one of my friends from work, who my boyfriend didn't like at all. My friend from work and I was never intimate, but we hung out a lot because he was my moral support and shoulder to cry on during this time.

Now, my boyfriend and I are back together, and he will not let this die! Every time we fight, he brings up that I was with another guy (only as friends) and I tell him that it doesn't matter what happened when we were broken up, plus nothing happened between me and my friend. Who's right?

2006-10-19 20:25:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like to give you a dozen roses.


For the joy I feel when I see you.

For loving me.

For your hug when I need one.

For spending time with me.

For your understanding of my needs.

For the special times we share.

For all the memories you have given me.

For always being there for me when I need you.

For the love I feel in my heart.

For the happiness you bring into my life.

For always listening to me.

For your unconditional friendship.



For your ANSWER!

2006-10-19 20:24:09 · 11 answers · asked by MaSTeR 3

2006-10-19 20:19:05 · 20 answers · asked by thinkpose 5

2006-10-19 20:18:20 · 10 answers · asked by Doclkk 4

Does it mean when you very first see them,or just an instant overflow of attraction at any given time of knowing them?........................Do you believe in it?

2006-10-19 20:15:30 · 11 answers · asked by Direktor 5

we have all been hurt and left borken , so why do they only blame the guys , you girls are just as bad if you look at it , so dont just blame the males , and the answer to the question is ???????

2006-10-19 20:13:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 16 and I think have fallen in true love with a guy.
(I am a girl,pleaze)

2006-10-19 20:11:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

commitment issues? I don't mean it disparigingly at all. Factual question: do all women have to overcome uncertainty when getting into a deeper relationship? I know some guys certainly do. Maybe true for everyone, then? What do you think?

2006-10-19 20:09:10 · 8 answers · asked by randyken 6

I.E. 3sums, 4sums... I have done it before with an ex. my new girlfriend has a very high sex drive and she is open to everything .. I think it will strengthen our relationship. What do you think?

2006-10-19 20:08:23 · 6 answers · asked by cockednlocked38 1

Hi all, Im a 24 y/o Female who can be very very shy. I dont like being shy simply for the fact that the girl im dating is more shy then i am. We have known each other for 6 months already and only kissed. I feel even more shy around her because she is so damn shy. I hate it. I try to just let lose but i cant. Its so hard because she doesnt ever make the move to kiss me or anything, its always me... and she tells me all the time she likes me so i know its not that she doesnt want to do things with me... How can i overcome this shyness i have? I am always myself around her but just not sexually. And i want to be and shes told me she wants me to be... Shes even told me i have to make the moves because she will never because of her shyness... so confusing! Haha. I say "okay f-it, im not gonna be shy" and that doesnt work... Maybe theres hope! ;) Thanks in advance for your responses.

2006-10-19 19:54:18 · 12 answers · asked by coffeejitterzz 2

Do you feel that if there are no strings attached in a relationship that it reduces the amount of arguments!!

2006-10-19 19:51:28 · 8 answers · asked by Deavious999 3

Ok so the deal is that she is literally carzy. she honestly thinks its everyone else job to please her. she drives me insane. plus *this is the real problem* she has made it her LIFE GOAL to keep me and him from having sex. IN HIS HOUSE. its crazy. and its not like we can just lock all the doors *we've tryed she just busts them open* did i mention she is 300lbs? but also his grandparents live with him since its near his moms house *so she can be near them* and my appartment is tiny makes being intimate very hard. any way. we have told her to stop. we have locked the doors. we have asked his mom to stop her but she just refuses. she is really acting like shes 12. its ridiculous. she is in need of serious help.

2006-10-19 19:48:55 · 9 answers · asked by yup yep 2

Asian guys?

The media says you're only attracted to black guys, my question is, do you find yourselves attracted to asian guys?

2006-10-19 19:46:13 · 15 answers · asked by linko9789 1

Well we've had 2 good conversations that went on. She held a smile both times throughout both conversations. Our last one however I was talking to her askin her where she was headed. She was holdin a smile, and answered.

I then asked her if she had a locker partner. I guess I figured it'd be a good way to probably get a chance to see her everyday. She had one unfortunately. So I was like, "Ah that sucks I need a new partner bad, there are like 4 different people in and out of mine and I've lost 2 books already"

Only thing about this convo that seemed to have gone wrong was the fact we didn't say goodbye and kinda drifted apart on that one. I kinda feel I'm losing her in a sense.

Should I ignore her for a bit? Then start approaching her again? What's my best bet? Where do I stand...

And I just found out she knows my sister. My sister came up to me today and was like, hey you liek Crystal don't you... I was like... How did you know?

2006-10-19 19:43:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wanna do it to him but dont know how... Any tips? Did he like it?

Thanks! :)

2006-10-19 19:43:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-19 19:41:34 · 20 answers · asked by DaysiJane 2

2006-10-19 19:41:29 · 11 answers · asked by baxman11 1

I want to ask out this girl Im really, really into. We have become pretty close friends and she keeps telling me things about how shes sad that she cant seem to keep a boyfriend, so Im thinking about going after her myself.

Just a little info - she is gorgeous, but shes pretty flirty and I think it turns guys away from her. Im not very good looking, and Ive never, ever had a gf. So Ive never kissed anyone, made out, anything. And Im 18. I know, lame =(

Basically what is holding me back is kissing. She is pretty forward with kissing, I know a lot of the guys she previously dated. She has had quite a few casual boyfriends so I know she is a good kisser. I dont want to be lame, especially because we al have the same friends.

What techniques can I use? She once mentioned to me how she hated a guy who just started off with their toungue. I didnt even know you could kiss for periods of time without it. How do you kiss someone when you arent useing your tongue? Jus tlips pressed together?

2006-10-19 19:40:34 · 9 answers · asked by Uh Oh 2

2006-10-19 19:36:53 · 12 answers · asked by baxman11 1

Does it mean anything when she says, "I want you to meet my girlfriends"?

2006-10-19 19:35:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-19 19:35:54 · 9 answers · asked by lynelleleibhart 1

Ok, I'ma guy. I'm 15 a Sophomore in High School.
Everyday I go to school not trying to dress good or like doing my hair or anythin. In fact I purposely try to dress bad because I don't want any girls liking me. Not that I'm gay or anything but because, I don't know I just don't want to get distracted from studies.
But, what do you know, this girl started to like me. >.< Not that I'm takin her attraction to me for granted or anythin but like now I have to reject her cause I don't like her.
I don't want to destroy her heart so that she can never like anyone again but I still have to tell her off. She is not my friend or anything we hardly know eachother, and yea. What should I do/say?

2006-10-19 19:31:17 · 16 answers · asked by Hey. 1

Any jokes or techniques that can make her smile again?

2006-10-19 19:29:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous