Singles & Dating - 19 October 2006

So, ive tried talking to/askin out all the girls in my classes, at my church, and even all my younger sisters friends. They're all either taken, not my type, or just uninterested. (by the way: i go to a small church and im in only 3 college classes, all very small, so its not like there was 100 girls or something... lol)...
I need a new way to meet people, any ideas?! I guess meeting them at bars hasn't worked for me, and im not the kind of guy to just approach random chicks at the mall (unless i was drunk or something).
Also, I would consider myself somewhat desirable? (some girls in the past thought so anyways) I guess you could say i have what it takes, im just lacking exposure! Any ideas on where i should go? what club i should sign up for? or who i should talk to? Also... im 21, live near a medium sized city. Someone help me out, im all out of ideas!
Thanks much!! ~and wish me luck also!

2006-10-19 16:50:11 · 3 answers · asked by Billy Boy 2

Me, I like the muffin tops better than the bottoms, but what about you?

2006-10-19 16:49:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know this question has been raised, but I'm really struggling with this. My BF downloads it and, I assume, watches it when I'm not around. I've recently had a baby and my body is NOT anything like the women in these flix. I feel that if there's pu$$y in the house, than he shouldn't have to watch it. I feel inferior and inadequate. I please him well, take my time and make his toes curl. I'm even the one initiaing all the kinky stuff because I'm curious and starting to go through my sexual peak. When I find his stash here and there and get upset and try to talk to him about it, he just invalidates my feelings and tells me that I'm just insecure. He's in bed at night with me and and doesn't do much outside of work and kids because we're new to the state and have no family and few friends here. I'm really a mess over it and always in tears. Can someone please help me understand, and am I just crazy or do I have a valid, heartfelt point here?

2006-10-19 16:49:03 · 9 answers · asked by baybeegirlblue 1

me and my boyfriend broke up last night . we've been together for 10 months but there were too much problems being together.. and its been a hard time for me ever since we broke up, i've cheated on him once by kissing some other guy but i've been loyal to him ever since , i just feel so much pain knowing that we two arent together anymore. i want him back so badly but it seems like he doesnt even give a fcuk about me anymore .. i just wish i can rewind time and undo the wrongs , what should i do , i really dont want to move on , i want him and that's all i need . if your going to say " once a cheater , always a cheater " thats not true , people might change and i guess the quote " you never know what you got til its gone " is the best quote for me right now , sigh i just dont know what to do .. help please ..

2006-10-19 16:48:43 · 3 answers · asked by yahoogirl 1

umm.. okay this guy who im going out with really wants to kiss me but ive never kissed a guy before.. so i dont know what or how to do it.. please help?!

2006-10-19 16:47:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

guys, what do you look for in a girl? have you found her yet?

2006-10-19 16:45:20 · 7 answers · asked by cutesweetgirl 1

Where do you get the best southern hospitality??? Where the gorgous men with accents fall from the sky ????

2006-10-19 16:43:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-19 16:43:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok. Your special someone is comming over to meet your parents/family for the first time. So far, your dating relationship has been great, with no problems.

With that in mind, which one would you rather endure: They show up with a horrible odor/funk wafting from their person (and it is not going away) OR they show up dressed completely wrong for the occasion (and not on purpose) I.E. the family is going out to Pizza Hut and they show up in a tux or formal gown.

Bonus question : How long do you wait until you say something?

2006-10-19 16:42:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

???

2006-10-19 16:40:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you do has it ever happened to you and where???
just wondering
did anything happen between you guys, by the way???

2006-10-19 16:40:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just got out of a bad situation in July..Present relationship on the rocks because other person is stuck in the past.....And I feel I'm being tortured emotionally.....What to do, what to do, what to do? I'm not so dense that I can't be advised, but be gentle by all means.

2006-10-19 16:38:29 · 17 answers · asked by 35 YEARS OF INTUITION 4

between a girl being, hot, cute, pretty, and ok? Should a woman be insulted if she is just referred to as "pretty" rather than "hot"?

2006-10-19 16:37:52 · 5 answers · asked by ihaveahugecrush 2

First things first.

Both of us are in college. She is 20, I am 21.

I met her thru my job (I fix student's computers).

One night after work, I went with her back to her place to look at a problem she was having with her internet connection after fixing her computer while I was at work.

What took 2 minutes to look at and fix lasted nearly 4 hours, as we sat and ate pizza and got to know each other - she started asking me questions about myself, and it took off from there.

It was amazing... we were finishing each other sentences, and she showed me her tattoo (strategically placed mind you - not normally visible) - and I didn't even ask to see it!

She kept touching me on the arm and on the shoulder while I was fixing her computer, she did so repeatedly, for reasons I am uncertain of.

She is recently single, but I am beginning to wonder if she is just a flirt and is using me just for my computer knowledge, or if she really likes me/is interested in me.

Help!

2006-10-19 16:36:27 · 29 answers · asked by racing_into_the_future 1

guys what would you do if you were with me right now?

brown hair, green eyes, long legs....

2006-10-19 16:34:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a 1st year grad student, and I have a crush on my RA who's an undergrad. Til now we've just done small talk. This week he's been more friendly, though. A couple of days ago, he invited me to a hall social. Then, tonight he ate dinner with me in the cafeteria. We talked for an hour, and we seem to have similar personalities. He acted silly, which he'd never done before. During the conversation, he mentioned that he'd been talking to a girl online, but that hadn't worked out, so now he was looking for a relationship. He said he preferred older girls. Near the end of the conversation, he invited me to hang out with him and his friends on Sunday.

The only problem is that I'm in an LDR that's not going well, and I'm sure my crush knows because we're both on facebook and my status says I'm in a relationship. Should I assume that my crush's comments about wanting a relationship were a sign that he likes me? Normally I wouldn't even consider it, but my current SO is being neglectful.

2006-10-19 16:34:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I have been talking to this guy for over a year, only met him once, but we chat everyday. I do think I am an attractive girl, but it seems he only wants to chat with me, but not to see me. But the one time we met, it was wonderful.

I guess I screwed up a little, about few weeks ago, I had to go to an obligated party and the party started late, so I didn't meet him that day which we had agreed on. Since then he stopped talking to me as frequently. Then I said my goodbyes and tried to move on. I have been on dates. My new date is very nice to me. Just the minute I decided to move on with the new date, this guy suddenly messaged me and things picked up again. I like the new date, but I cannot really let this guy go. However it seems this guy doesn't want to get too close to me.

I missed him a lot, in the meantime I want to forget about him. But every time I met somebody, he would appear and my heart gets disturbed again.

What's his intention with me? Does he want me?

2006-10-19 16:32:56 · 4 answers · asked by Daelyndai 1

GUYS:I want to know what you think of girls who are "bi*chy", are they attractive? Do they make a lasting relationship?
GIRLS: Do you think being "bi*chy" is beneficial for a lasting relationship?
Traits that I am talking about:
1) mental challenge.
2) confidently honest (example: they speak their mind all the time, and are not afraid of disapproval).
3) respected (expects lots of respects, and never lets anyone put her down).
-Basically the opposite of being a nice girl.

2006-10-19 16:32:48 · 6 answers · asked by DN 2

2006-10-19 16:32:06 · 7 answers · asked by Grace 3

i just found out that i have hpv. me and my boyfriend havent had sex yet and i couldnt keep this from him. because the sex talk is coming up more now. so i told him tonight. he said he would be there for me,that he loves me and didnt want to be with anyone but me, but i am scared i am going to lose him i dont know what to do now i love this man with all my heart. should i believe him that he is going to stick by me. do u think he is going to go find u know somewhere else. should i set him free. i know he isnt going to want to touch me now. but that is cool i will wait and he say he will to should i believe him.

2006-10-19 16:29:44 · 15 answers · asked by whiteangel 2

If he kiss (french or making out) a girl he likes, how or what does he feel?

If he loves the girl, how does he feels? What's the difference between a kiss (the one he likes and one he loves)?

When he is on the phone and he says he wants to kiss you and then he says he is sending you a kiss through the phone, what is he thinking at that time? Does he miss the girl or is he feeling something else to be saying that?

Just out of curiousity... guys pls tell the truth..it helps for the girl to know.

2006-10-19 16:28:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I went to work to pick up my schedual I saw the guy I like and he said that he was going out tonight and he asked me if I was and I said no tommrow night, but when I got to thinking about it and after I got home I called him and I said are you still going out tonight and he said yes but not until later, like around 10:30-11:00 and I said that is fine, and it is now 10:30 and he has not called me, I really like him and I know he likes me but said I'm too quiet, and he didn't know if he could handle that, what do I do?? Should I give him another chance, because I will see him at work this weekend, and give him a chance to explain why he did not call me back, opinions would be appreciated,
thanks ashely

2006-10-19 16:27:51 · 6 answers · asked by ashley 2

I like this guy but, I have no idea how he feels about me we've known eachother since 5th grade and really haven't gotten to be friends now he's in my spanish class and they're are hints of flirting but I think it's nothing should I take a cance or leave it alone?

2006-10-19 16:26:52 · 7 answers · asked by true_love_4ever92 1

Do you simply say no? give an excuse? or what?

this one girl i am trying to asking out always has some kind of excuse! this has been the 2nd time now, one more shot and thats it forget her.

2006-10-19 16:25:12 · 25 answers · asked by FeverLust 3

please .

2006-10-19 16:25:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

This summer I cheated on my bf with the guy next door. And before I cheated on my ex I had a dream that I called my friends and told them I cheated. And when my ex bf brokeup with me I didn't feel haert broken and I still don't. What could this mean? I have 3possibilities:1)We might get back 2gether. 2)He might talk 2 me again and we can become friends again. 3)I never liked him anyway. He keeps giving me these looks like yesterday when he smiled at me his mouth was smiling but his eyes looked sad with a hint of anger. What could this mean?

2006-10-19 16:24:33 · 5 answers · asked by Steph1490 4

I am recently divorced. I have no idea how to get a conversation going. Any suggestions?

2006-10-19 16:24:30 · 7 answers · asked by shugabam! 2

2006-10-19 16:23:43 · 7 answers · asked by Lucy Lu 4

I've liked this guy for 6 months and I know it's never going to go anywhere. We work in different departments. The thing is I think he has always maybe had a hint that I might like him. But he would back off when I would try to get close. He used to flirt with me and then back off if I reacted to him. Now it seems he's just trying to be friends with me like he is with other girls that he has no interest in otherwise. I want to be his friend, but it's hard in a way. Having these feeling for him. It would just be a semi friend because I only see him for a couple of minutes everyday. What's your advice, even though I have to see him looking at this one really cute girl I know he must like. Since I know he'll never like me in that way. Should I just kidd with him when he kids with me. And sometimes he'll now touch me on the shoulder like he does the other girls he doesn't like but they don't like him. He'll pat me on the back. Do you see why this could be hard for me?

2006-10-19 16:23:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-19 16:22:58 · 25 answers · asked by nikki 1