So, ive tried talking to/askin out all the girls in my classes, at my church, and even all my younger sisters friends. They're all either taken, not my type, or just uninterested. (by the way: i go to a small church and im in only 3 college classes, all very small, so its not like there was 100 girls or something... lol)...
I need a new way to meet people, any ideas?! I guess meeting them at bars hasn't worked for me, and im not the kind of guy to just approach random chicks at the mall (unless i was drunk or something).
Also, I would consider myself somewhat desirable? (some girls in the past thought so anyways) I guess you could say i have what it takes, im just lacking exposure! Any ideas on where i should go? what club i should sign up for? or who i should talk to? Also... im 21, live near a medium sized city. Someone help me out, im all out of ideas!
Thanks much!! ~and wish me luck also!
2006-10-19 16:50:11 · 3 answers · asked by Billy Boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-19 16:55:57 · answer #1 · answered by Ariel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try the bar scene with your friends if you're looking to get laid. Remember confidence is everything.
If you're looking for a nice christian relationship (which has its perks) try going to a college social group at one of the bigger churches in your area. Most of those groups are full of really friendly people that make new people feel welcome. It can be kinda hit and miss though.
Just remember you'll never get anything if you don't get out and try.
Oh yeah, and don't be scared of rejection. Natural part of life. Can't be avoided. Just think of rejections as learning experiences.
2006-10-19 23:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by Ian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The strip club.
2006-10-20 00:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋