What should I do ?

Question

Well I have been talking to this guy for over a year, only met him once, but we chat everyday. I do think I am an attractive girl, but it seems he only wants to chat with me, but not to see me. But the one time we met, it was wonderful.

I guess I screwed up a little, about few weeks ago, I had to go to an obligated party and the party started late, so I didn't meet him that day which we had agreed on. Since then he stopped talking to me as frequently. Then I said my goodbyes and tried to move on. I have been on dates. My new date is very nice to me. Just the minute I decided to move on with the new date, this guy suddenly messaged me and things picked up again. I like the new date, but I cannot really let this guy go. However it seems this guy doesn't want to get too close to me.

I missed him a lot, in the meantime I want to forget about him. But every time I met somebody, he would appear and my heart gets disturbed again.

What's his intention with me? Does he want me?

Answer 1

IT REALLY SOUND LIKE HE HAS SOMETHING THAT HE
HIDING WHICH MAY BE THE REASON THAT AFTER A YEAR
OF TALKING YOU HAVE ONLY MET ONCE. AND FOR THE
OTHER GUY IF YOU LIKE HIM THEN GO FOR IT, DONT
LET THIS OTHER GUY KEEP COMING IN AND OUT OF
YOUR LIFE THAT NOT FAIR TO YOU. BECAUSE IF HE
REALLY WANT TO PURSUE THIS HE WOULD HAVE DONE
IT.

Answer 2

umm..................he does want you...its actually pretty confusing...if u like tjis guy y dont u tell him so and explain to him. if he's interested in u as much as u think he is...then by talking u can get things straight and clear

and then it'll be easy for both u guys to move on

Answer 3

let this guy go and move on with your life..kinda sounds like he may have something to hide...move on..

Answer 4

i dont know