Singles & Dating - 17 October 2006

i have bf and we've been steady for about 3 yrs and we are planning to get marriend next year. but he likes flirting in the internet and he lilkes to chat alot of women. but he told me that i am assuming things, we argued most of the times about these things. i know he signed up many yahoo ids but he always telling me that i am always assuming things about him. My male friend told me let him be he needs social life, as long as we are together, he said there's nothing wrong with it...should i get worried about these things?

2006-10-17 19:09:52 · 8 answers · asked by steph 1

2006-10-17 19:08:27 · 8 answers · asked by Paul S 2

He cheated with my best friend and flaunted in my face, but i am starting to miss him real bad. He ask me to come home and he would never do anything to hurt me ever again so i thought it would'nt hurt just to go and talk but i'll be damned if the b itch was'nt there when i got there. he did'nt think i would show up so he called her. please tell me to get over it and stop being stupid, because i know in my heart he will never stop cheating.

2006-10-17 19:07:29 · 6 answers · asked by ? 4

okay, so i got invited to this party and im pretty excited, it's mixed, there is like 60 people invited and yeah, the thing is tey all like to play truth or dare, and i've never played co-ed... they go pretty far except no sex or nude... but of corse making out is a big part of it, im 15, but i still havent had my first kiss, sad i kno but thats a different story, and i dont kno how i should react, im really nervous, what should i do?

2006-10-17 19:06:01 · 8 answers · asked by Katie 1

i love him with all my heart, when i go visit him, he still gives me the chills and the butter flies on my stomach. i feel like nobody could possibly understand what i feel inside for him. to me he is the perfect gentlemen for me. he is the only guy that i ever cried/cry for. when they gave him his sentence it was like somebody shot me in my chest with a gun, my heart was hurting like it had needles, that terrable pain would not go away even today. before he was locked we were only together for two weeks but it was the best time of my whole life...should i stay with him or just move on knowing i can not ever have him again...it will be like some titanic ****...he will be locked for 12 yrs....what should i do?

2006-10-17 19:02:37 · 12 answers · asked by oneday 1

am i wasting my time just waiting for my price charming? i feel like i had him, but now were broken up because i took him for granted and we felt like we didn't love eachother anymore. But now that hes gone, i feel like ill never love anyone the way i loved him, part of me wants him back but i dont think he wants it, am i still in love with him? he was my first love and we dated for over a year..

2006-10-17 18:59:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it that when you're not interested in them they try to swoon you? And when you give them a hint of interest back they don't call or want to see you as often when they were trying to win your emotions. I'm so sick of playing these games!

2006-10-17 18:57:38 · 23 answers · asked by lil one 2

2006-10-17 18:57:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

from kindergarden all the way through 7th grade i had a crush on this boy from church and he had a crush on me, everybody knew it, and everybody would tease us about it. well i moved and changed churches and i didn't see him anymore. recently we have been talking online and he asked for my phone number and said we should hang out sometime and stuff like that, also we have never really done anything outside of church except like 7 times and they were mainly partys. i was wondering if you think he still likes me.

2006-10-17 18:56:27 · 8 answers · asked by JJS 1

It's not that I'm lazy or anything...ooook, I am, but it's not my fault. It's my parents' really...their genes and they raised me. So is it possible to find a decent girl to marry if I don't want to work and I hate my life?

2006-10-17 18:55:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My gf has always been pretty closed up but after some really deep conversations with her, she has opened up a little. On more than one occasion she has said that she used to see a counselor but stopped going, but won't go into any more detail than that. I had heard some allusion from one of her friends of sexual assault somewhere in her (the gf's) past. What do I do? I am there 100% for her, but it's just killing me that every time we take three step forward, we have to take 2 steps back, ya know? How do I even bring it up or suggest she bring it up? I know she has something she wants to tell me, and I know she's close to doing so, but I don't know how long I can wait.

2006-10-17 18:52:44 · 5 answers · asked by randyken 6

Do you think it is possible for a man in love to ask his girlfriend or wife for a threesome?

I am very open minded and not a prude, by any means - I can understand it with a friend or something but not with someone you love. (As warped as that may sound.)

I know the difference between love and sex but my key point here is if a man truly loves you, how could he want to be with someone else, even if you let him?

Or does a man who asks that not truly love the woman?

(I would never let my boyfriend do that, by the way but he says it this way - 'If you want me to do it, I will."
Yeah, right.
That is like giving permission to cheat, how does it make it better that I am present while it is happening?
I don't get it.
When I love someone, I don't want to be with anyone else and I wouldn't - even if they asked me.

What does that difference mean?

2006-10-17 18:52:24 · 13 answers · asked by Brownie 1

Damn I love an Aries male.

Peace.

2006-10-17 18:50:39 · 6 answers · asked by -Tequila17 6

You see i like 2 guys; jv and timmy. But i liked timmy longer and i like him better. jv is my bestfriend so i tell him EVERYTHING about me and my crush- timmy. i hurt him countless times coz i kept on doing that.. it just slipped out of my mouth. Now timmy is my boyfriend and jv found out because he read my txt messages to timmy. jvs really mad at me he said he doesnt want us to be friends. he wont talk or listen to me. he told carol one of his bestfriends and now shes mad at me too coz she likes jv better than timmy. the question is WHAT SHOULD I DO TO MAKE JV FORGIVE ME? should i send pizza to his house with pepperoni saying sorry? what? please help!

2006-10-17 18:48:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

today he came to buy something but we did not talk(we don't talk as much but he always smiles at me when he sees me) well today i went outside to talk to a customer and he came out of his truck and started to come closer and he told me let me have ur number. i was like shocked that he actually asked for it again and happy at the same time but i don't get it though its been almost five months the first time i gave him my number so today finally he asked me for it again. he told that i have gaven him the wrong number. so i gave it to him again and when i was leaving he asked me do i get a hug? so he gave me a hug... what do u think? plz hel me

2006-10-17 18:46:16 · 14 answers · asked by oneday 1

I really like this girl but I know I would never have a chance with her. But I can't stop thinking about her. How do I tell her I really want to be her slave (if she don't want me as a boyfriend)? Should I ask her on my knees?

2006-10-17 18:44:27 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

So.
I just have to ask.
Has a girl ever sent you flowers?
Or would you ever want a girl to?
What kind would it be?
Or even...do you have a favorite flower??

Im just curious.

2006-10-17 18:43:18 · 19 answers · asked by iLoveHugs 3

Man, I used to be so crazy about this girl but she was hooked up and not interested but now they broke up and she totally digs me but I'm not interested anymore. Instead, I'm interested in another girl which either is playing hard to get or is totally not into me...what is wrong with me?

2006-10-17 18:33:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a 16 gay/lesbian girl, [whatever you wanna call it] and my girlfriend went through a lot just to ask me out, and i said yes. its been a few weeks now, and i honestly do not find her attractive anymore, she gets on my nerves, she has bad hair....and more things that i cant think of on the spot.....but i dont have any real resons for why i should break up with her.....what do i effing do???

2006-10-17 18:32:59 · 10 answers · asked by anti_greenday66 1

theres this guy i like at school but he has a gf...the problem is he liked me last year..but i wasnt interested. and now i am. im frends with him and his gf...but i dunno wat to do, cuz im falling deep for him...help plz!!

2006-10-17 18:29:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are you girls generally more attracted to

asian guys
or
black guys?

2006-10-17 18:25:22 · 7 answers · asked by linko9789 1

I'm Thinking It Happen To Me.She Told Me She Want Me To Meet More People....We Could Get Back Later....And Left...was it a excuse or just the truth??? =[

2006-10-17 18:24:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 8 years. He was a "street " type of dude when we got together and I guess still kinda is. We have lived together for 7 years. We have no kids because I will not have kids out of wedlock. He wants children now but does not want to get married "right now" he said he doesnt need a piece of paper to confirm it. Isn't that just another excuse, am I asking too much. He once told me in bed of course that we could get married set a date and all and its like it never happened. He says his grnadpa married his grandma when they were 50 and had 6 kids, am I wrong to want to be married first I am 26 and running out of time. biological clock is ticking help!

2006-10-17 18:23:26 · 10 answers · asked by megs 2

yesterday my g.f took a BIG bite outof my burger @ lunch so i called her a fatas* and i made her cry.(idk why she's 5'9 and 105-110lbs) but now she's really pissed at me. i feel bad tht i made her cry but i also feel tht i deserve an apoplogy bc she i told her last week to stop eating my food when my backs turned but she did it any ways. if we were to break up who's fault would it b?

2006-10-17 18:23:14 · 13 answers · asked by Simply Me 5

Do you get your points back?

No one has bothered answering my previous question damit.

2006-10-17 18:18:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-17 18:17:24 · 4 answers · asked by bc_bad_azzz 1

"Does he love me?" and then i read that he carried her books to class...

AHHH!!! It kills me a little.

I am not saying it is impossible, but throwing around the word love takes away a lot of it's meaning. I was 25 before I ever told a gf I loved her, and I thought I meant it at the time. But I care for my current gf even more than I ever imagined possible with the ex.

Love to me means butterflies when you see them, miss them at least a little when they're not around, and sacrificing your some of your own desire to benefit the relationship. Anyone older agree w/ any of this? Anyone in HS really think they're in love or is the word just, well, commonplace?

2006-10-17 18:15:59 · 7 answers · asked by randyken 6

Guys...what would be the sexiest way for a girl to tell you that she is ready to have sex with you?

2006-10-17 18:14:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a woman wants to really make a good impression....what is the trick???

2006-10-17 18:13:51 · 10 answers · asked by rose 3

any suggestions on finding your true love?

2006-10-17 18:13:15 · 10 answers · asked by phaegmoristic 2