Man, I used to be so crazy about this girl but she was hooked up and not interested but now they broke up and she totally digs me but I'm not interested anymore. Instead, I'm interested in another girl which either is playing hard to get or is totally not into me...what is wrong with me?
2006-10-17 18:33:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hehe you're human.
This stuff happens... we want what's unreachable.. and when they are, we want something else. hehe Nothing's wrong with you. but hey, maybe you should give the other girl that is now interested in u a try... maybe you'll fall back into interest... who knows where that could lead u? ya never know if ur ever gonna have that opportunity to hook up with her again in the case u do like her again. hehe it could be the start of something u least expected? worth a shot... after all you once had interest in her. heh
but yeah... things change, people change.
2006-10-17 18:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by hawaiiangirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel uniquely qualified to answer this. My exes are all models and what not. Girls like this have been looked upon most of their lives and hounded by many. They have a million times more experience being hounded that you do as a hound. They know how to handle men, classify men, get what they want from men, they are the pros. My advice to you, if you can only pursue this type of woman, is to either develop or get something that all women want. I have found a five letter word that works, depsite my non-conventional good looks, middle aged belly, and ruddy complexion: M-O-N-E-Y. Drive a Ferrari, talk about how you were Tom Cruise's bodyguard, dress impeccably, these are just but a few things that will get the women you want in your corner, no matter how oversexed and stuck up they are. NO girl is unattainable, even married girls. Its like you are Joe Montana, and you have that football in your hands. If you can throw it to Rice, or whoever, there is a way to touch-down on any lady you desire. You just have to figure out how what buttons to push. For some guys, they are naturals, for others, it takes practice. So keep your head up and listen to just one important thing here: Believe in yourself, or noone else will.
2006-10-17 18:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by serramontecrabs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not have to be a fantasy, but you must be realistic! Try and research the best way suitable for your lifestyle, to lose the weight. There is so much information around, and you should start NOW! You can work towards this goal of yours, and do not think it a fantasy. Losing weight, wearing contacts and make-up can happen easily enough. If not soon, then most certainly before you become much older. How do you think we all start off? Yes, even the celebrities that you think are gorgeous!
2016-05-21 22:44:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with you. You just moved on in your interest in that particular girl. Usually once you have been dumped, you subconsiously detach any feelings you might have had for the girl who dump you as a ways and means of dealing with rejection. Since you are persuing other girls, you are not focused on former ground anymore. It is actually the best for you anyways. It is her loss and not yours.
2006-10-17 18:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a chaser. Like most men, you like to hunt and once you have the prey, you lose interest. Maybe you'll find a person who gives in little by little and keeps you on your toes all the time ;)
2006-10-17 18:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by Lilith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Situtations like this are often more complicated than they seem. I agree that the grass is greener on the other side but I find that I myself always want someone that I don't know who is very attractive only to meet them and find them uninteresting. You just want what you can't have and you have it you don't want it.
2006-10-17 18:45:16 · answer #6 · answered by Relationship Advisor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of people have said that guys only want what they cant have, but that isn't an explanation, that is a statement. i have a similar problem, and i think that it is the cahllange to get a girl to like you that may be turning you on, and once you achieve that, you move on and are no longer attracted to it.
2006-10-17 18:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically honey it all comes down to this "we always want what we cant have" and "the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence" need i say more? :)
2006-10-17 18:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by natasha v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible you like them, but when they are available you are afraid to actually be with them? Just a thought...
2006-10-17 18:37:41 · answer #9 · answered by so_silly_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being a dork
2006-10-17 18:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by John H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋