im a 16 gay/lesbian girl, [whatever you wanna call it] and my girlfriend went through a lot just to ask me out, and i said yes. its been a few weeks now, and i honestly do not find her attractive anymore, she gets on my nerves, she has bad hair....and more things that i cant think of on the spot.....but i dont have any real resons for why i should break up with her.....what do i effing do???
2006-10-17 18:32:59 · 10 answers · asked by anti_greenday66 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be straight girl better than be lesbian
u r against the law of nature
u break the rules of our humanity
2006-10-17 18:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
weirdokid: Hi ... hope things are getting better. Anyways; you are thoughtful for considering her feelings and asking for input from us in this Yahoo site. You, might I suggest, tell her that you want to cool it and just be friends. Tell her you need the space right now in your life to breath. That you have a lot to think about and don't want a relationship anymore to crowd you. Personally speaking, I think you are finding out that life, isn't all what it is cracked up to be. Hollywood, media and our friends "paint" life in a "all is wonderful" mode. The realities of life are oftentimes, harsh and we have to do our best with what we have and who we are. I am a male and I feel for you - really - sincerely !!! I hope you can iron this situation out and move on with your life. Good luck to ya !!!
2006-10-17 18:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do not you enable HIM make the alternative approximately no count if he'd quite have all those different women. that's not which you will choose; enable him choose what's sweet for his own existence. there is likewise the alternative of an open relationship. You look soft with the thought he is going to be surrounded by utilising different women and don't opt for to "carry him lower back." you are able to circumvent protecting him lower back mutually as nevertheless protecting him as a boyfriend in case you opt for. not all relationships could desire to be unique if the human beings in them do not opt for them to be. be careful, as that should require the two considered one of you to be very mature approximately what's occurring or you would be harm.
2016-11-23 17:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. are you kidding me?
gay/bi/straight/whatever- breaking up with someone because of their HAIR just shows that you are not ready to be in a real, serious relationship. grow up a little.
aside from that fact, let her know you want to be single for a while. say something like, i think we should see other people. i still want to be friends, is that okay? or whatever you think sounds best.
2006-10-17 18:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by Yelena 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well tell her you have nothing in common and you think that you guys should be friends and be nice adout it? Either way shes going to get hurt? Don't start with we have to talk because that always means its bad? I know that for allot of my another boyfriends? So be nice adout it? And good luck?
2006-10-17 18:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by JESSIKA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your young, just tell her that your not gay anymore and it was just phase and move on. That way she doesn't get hurt as much. I know it's lying but, that way it doesn't feel that bad, and she won't take it bad.
2006-10-17 18:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by Diamond D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you.re only 16... you more guidance from parents. come back again once you,re 18 above.
2006-10-17 18:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont break up
2006-10-17 18:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by Pokkiri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you've really appreciated the chance to get to know her, but you think y'all are better off friends.
2006-10-17 18:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by movielovingirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her it's not you it's me
2006-10-17 18:42:23 · answer #10 · answered by xoxo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋