How does my being a virgin affect a female's perception of me?
First of all, DO NOT tell me to wait until marriage. I am not a Christian. Please respect this request.
I am a 17 year old senior in High School. And yes, I am a virgin. I get attention from girls and they like me (I'm a nice guy, average looking, pretty "popular"). But, almost all of the girls I'm around lost their virginity at least a year ago. Could this have something to do with their perception of me? Do they perceive the possibility of hooking up with me as "scary"? Is the thought of dating me even more scary?
Also, its not like I've been desperately trying to have sex with somebody. I've thought about it and I've come close to doing it, but of the 3-5 girls in my school that I'm at least remotely interested in...most have had boyfriends. Now that they're single, how does my being a virgin affect my chances with them? Because generally guys are the ones losing their virginity first.
Thanks in advance.
2006-10-13
09:52:15
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