I like two guys. One guy is a senior who is really sweet, smart, and cute. The other guy is a freshman who is a freshman who has a girlfriend. I really like both guys but I can't amke a decision. I have fun with both of them, they both make me laugh, and they both make me get butterflies in my stomach when I think about them. I know that I have to choose one and I know that I ahve to be happy with my descision but idon't know how i would be happy when I know one of the guys is 18 and the other one has a giprlfriend. What do you think Is hould do? Please help me?
2006-10-13 09:55:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't feel sad...go shopping for a new outfit & which ever on compliments you first...he's the one!!
2006-10-13 09:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by BooSha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, first of all you need to stop worring so much about these two guys, and you need to think more about your self. Weight your priorities, and see which one weigths more than the other. The freshmen you like has a girlfriend, so forget about him right now, later on during your high school years he might end up without a girlfriend and you will have your chance to meet him and best of all he might be all single. So you can wait on this one.
On the 18 year old I do not know how old you are, but it seems that you are younger than him, so I would say stick with your own age group. He will soon be out of school and probably to collage and what will happened to you. I do not think he is the appropriate for you. You might have a better chance with the freshmen, but not right now. Also, look around your school you are young and have a whole life ahead of you. There migth be others intrested in you and if you do not look around or give them a chance you will never know. Maybe someone likes you, like you like this guys. Also, try to see the inside of a person not just the looks. I have a teenage daughter and I know how you feel. Good Luck and take Care,
2006-10-13 17:09:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want either of them?
The one HAS a girlfriend, and most of the time if a guy leaves another girl for you, he will leave you for another girl.
The other guy is a senior, and that means he will be going off to college next year and that relationship will not last.
With either guy you are settling for less then you want, and would wonder what if about the other no matter what boy you pick.
I would say start over, go for neither of them, if the one guy frees up in the future maybe talk to him again then, but for now find a unattached guy close to your age who gives you those same butterflies and you know you want to be with, without having to even think about it. Those are the best relationships!
2006-10-13 17:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by chickennosenshi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? if you are younger than 16 then its even more of a difficult decision to make because apart from the big age gap its illegal.however, the other guy has a girl.u cant ruin that.i know you may really like this guy but imagine how you would feel if some girl came along and took your guy from you.its not a nice thing to do.if you are old enough then go with the 18 year old.just be careful.otherwise if neither of them is really appropriate as hard as it will be maybe u just gotta take a step back and ask yourself whether being with either of these guys is the right thing to do
2006-10-13 17:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by J'sGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which one is available? Is the freshman really into his girlfriend? Personally I would go for the senior since he seems like he might be into you. You would not want to break up a happy relationship to satisfy your own personal gain. I was in sort of the same situation a couple years ago. I was dating a really sweet guy, and I really liked him, but he left for the military. His best friend was there for me when anything went wrong in our relationship, and I liked him too. After my BF left his friend and I started spending a lot of time together, and became really good friends, with benefits. At the same time, I still had feelings for my BF. I had to make a decision, and unfortunately it was the wrong one, I went after my BF friend. He decided that since I broke up my relationship with my BF that he did not want to see me anymore because I was a "cheater".
So you see there are always 2 sides to a dilemma. Its really up to you to decide. Maybe you should seek a relationship with someone else altogether.
2006-10-13 17:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by hibiscusdreamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I don't know what grade you are in so the age difference is in question. But I would prolly go for the senior since he's single. And if that doesn't work out then go back to the freshman and maybe he'll be single.
2006-10-13 17:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by ♥SO Happy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The senior is the only choice. The one who has a girlfriend is off limits. To make it easier, think of it this way. You have two potential meals. One is a cheeseburger and fries sitting in front of you on a plate. One is a cheeseburger and fries that's sitting on the plate in front of an 800-lb grizzly bear. Go for what's not in front of the bear.
2006-10-13 16:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?????? Maybe you should stay with neither. Dont ever hook up with soemone that has a girlfriend and if you're too young for the senior then dont go out with him either because most 18 year old guys are into partying, sex and stuff and if youre not mature enough for it then your going to have a bad time.
2006-10-13 17:01:22 · answer #8 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, are they interested in you as well? Second, the one that has a girlfriend is off limits. How would you feel if you're with a guy and some girl steals him away from you.
2006-10-13 16:57:45 · answer #9 · answered by Jenna S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pick the senior they both make you happy and the other has a girlfriend so what do you have to lose.
2006-10-13 17:11:44 · answer #10 · answered by britt7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! no dating an older guy...its like a guy dating a baby-no offense, but dats how i see it and no wanting a guy who's already taken. There's lots of other guys for the choosing.
2006-10-13 16:59:06 · answer #11 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋