My boyfriend is not e mailing me for the last few days and when i call him his phone is busy! I just called him and his room mate told me that he just went to the storelike that really happend . What should i do i don't want to break up.
2006-10-13 10:01:32 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quit giving him so much power over your happiness. Find something to do instead of obsessing over what your boyfriend is doing. Call a friend, go to the movies, whatever. Just don't bore that friend by talking about only your boyfriend. Take time to enjoy the other people around you, and while you're at it, enjoy the time you have by yourself. Your boyfriend will either come around to calling or you will move on. But there's really not point in making yourself crazy in the mean time.
2006-10-13 10:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you do contact him, ask him if he has any time to schedule to talk to you. If he refuses, tell him that you really want to talk to him about his abscence from your life, and what's been going on. If he has nothing to hide, he will make time, even if its two weeks from now. If he wants to keep you, he will make the time.
However, since this sounds like he's avoiding you, give it a rest for a while. I'm sorry to say, if your gut is telling you something, you have to go with it, no matter how hard its going to hurt. You can't keep putting your life on hold for his, and you shouldn't be blaming yourself or trying to seek his attention when he no longer wants to give it to you. I'm positive you are a beautiful, smart woman who can get any man you wish, and to waste your time with some guy who won't even return your phone calls is not worth your precious time.
If he still doesn't contact you, dump the dude. Go out and find someone who will really appreciate your for who you are. You have a lot to offer the opposite sex, and college (I'm assuming) is the time to find new people to meet and hang out with. Be the kickass girl you know you are inside, and show that guy what he's been missing!
2006-10-13 17:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all do you think he could be cheating? If so get rid of him ASAP it's not worth it. You could also show up unannounced to "surprise" (make sure no one is there) him and see how he reacts. Also try to talk to him and see why he is avoiding you. Did something weird happen the last time you 2 were together he may be embarrassed about?
2006-10-13 17:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) calm down
2) Try to use another number that he doesn't know to call him. If he picks up you'll know he's been avoiding you.
3) Go to his place and try to see him....he's your boyfriend after all
4) if none of this works then you may need to cut your losses......if a guy likes you he's not gonna take a chance and of not calling and you breaking up with him....
See the link....
2006-10-13 17:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by crazy_in_lov 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In his mind he may have already broke up...he's just to much of a wuss to tell you that. Sometimes too they like the chase. So I'd quit calling for a few days. Cut off all contact. See if you reel him back in. If not he has moved on.
Good luck.
2006-10-13 17:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by The Steele's 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could just be over reacting however if this keep on happening, something is clearly the matter but DONT KEEP ON RINGING HIM it makes you sound desperate- however desperate you are let him come to you unless you have done something to upset him. If nothing comes of it try asking his room mate but if that fails move on you deserve better.
2006-10-13 17:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by hellodobedo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, girl, you've got yourself a problem, but maybe you should ask him where have you been lately and plus there is other fish in the sea. So keep your head high, if he is cheating on you then girrrrrrllll you are way to good 4 him
2006-10-13 17:09:06 · answer #7 · answered by angie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably hiding from you because you are acting like a crazy person. Chill out. No one wants to be with a crazy girl. Be secure in yourself...your life shouldnt be all about him. Make him wonder where YOU are.
2006-10-13 17:08:39 · answer #8 · answered by EllisFan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go over there and confront him? Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't call you or respect your feelings, though? Get rid of him if he doesn't have a valid explanation-You can do better-Don't be a doormat.
2006-10-13 17:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by court 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes being immature, he needs to be straight up with you and tell you whats going on. Tell him that whenever you do finally get ahold of him. What a jerk. If he keeps avoiding you just give up and move on.
2006-10-13 17:06:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋