One of my friends used to like the same guy that I like now. I don't know if she still likes him though but I know that she used to. The problem is that I don't know if she told him bad things about me since we are in a fight right now. I mean I really like this guy and would date him but i am afraid that because I was fighting with my friend that she may have told him bad things about me. What should I do? Thanks in advance for your help?
2006-10-13 09:40:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should do things you always do. I have found out that it is alot less trouble to be myself and let other people make up their mind about what they think than trying to read their minds and change accordingly. If she is spinning lies about you and you continue to live your life then you will either prove her right or prove her wrong with your actions. Don' t try to change to get people to like you or you will be miserable the rest of your life!
2006-10-13 09:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by DC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all if the guy really likes you he'll accept you for who you are past or present. Is this guy even worth the pain.
2006-10-13 16:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by aznflippgurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋