Okay so I finally lost my virginity with my girlfriend. i'm 16. she's had sex b4. with like 4 other guys? and was in a 3 year relationship with one of them. and after we had sex she told me that i was the best she'd ever had. which i don't understand becus it was my 1st time and to tell u the truth i was a lil confused. but wut do u think? was she telling the truth or was she just trying to make me feel good.
oh and she says she doesn't complement me unless she means it.
2006-10-13 09:54:48 · 20 answers · asked by Luckiest Guy Alive 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would believe her. I seriously think that people are only as good as much as we like them.
MEANING - if you love someone, you have a connection, the sex is usually awesome.
2006-10-13 09:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude,
Buddy get use to this. As you'll figure out it's a world or slight lies and hidden truths when sex becomes involved. She will always be nice to you after b/c women know better than to tell a guy that his manhood is just no up to par. Trust me my young friend This is something that you don't want to push and the reason is that although you know you're not going to get hurt or offended. There is one side effect about sex that people tend to leave out. Know that you've had it you'll want more of it and guess what you don't need to be thinking about the lack of performance from the 1st time. You need to go in with the up most confidence. Trust me my man you were great now the fun part. No matter how good /bad./ whatever. Know that you've lost the lock on her and your sex life things are about to get very interesting very quickly.
I say go forth and go to town... Oh and remember Your not done unless she is... Keep that rule in mind and you'll never have to wonder if they thought you were good.
2006-10-13 10:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by Dr_Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not all about how you throw that thing at her so to speak. It is how you make a woman feel loved & caress her & make her feel beautiful. If you showed that woman that you wanted it to be all about her that is why you got that complement. Good Job!
2006-10-13 09:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she tells you she means it then she means it....
either you're naturally good or the other ones were really horrible.. maybe you two also connect on an emotional level that she really responds to
p.s. don't forget about birth control... 16 is no time to be having a baby, ya know? ;)
2006-10-13 09:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get guys that have shagged loads of girls, but are still no good at it. Some guys don't consider the girl, and what she wants. Some people fit better, or have similar taste in sexual things. It makes perfect sense.
2006-10-13 10:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by barbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just born with passion and the know how so she could be telling you the truth.
2006-10-13 09:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats to you!.....if she says that you're the best then just believe her.....I mean, it could have felt awkward for you but complete pleasure for her.....but then again, if she has a reputation for feeding a guy's ego then you should re-evaluate what she said....
2006-10-13 09:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by Jaybird21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she can have you whenever she gets in the mood for you. It is a mind game.
2006-10-13 09:58:42 · answer #8 · answered by TenJac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, believe her and trust her. That's all you can do. Follow your heart,she's probably not lying to you.
Good Luck Sweetie.
2006-10-13 10:03:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then she probably means it. You probably is her best. Some people just have that natural skill.
2006-10-13 09:56:36 · answer #10 · answered by Jenna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋