I'm a 36 yr old guy and I go to dance clubs alot on the weekends and I'm always attracted to the college age girls. I want to approach and talk to the younger girls, maybe ask them out but I'm not sure if they see me as too old? I'm a good looking, athletic built guy but are college age girls attracted to guys my age at all? Should I even bother with them?
I dance with them sometimes and they grind on me and let me touch them but I think thay are only teasing me and wouldn't date me?
Girls, I need your advice. Thanks.
2006-10-13 09:53:51 · 26 answers · asked by Riff Addict 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Many of my friends (around 20~ish) say yes. (I'm a guy though)
2006-10-13 09:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by RivatricHistrionic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a college girl and It depends on the guy. I'd be a little reluctant because I'm not sure what my family would think. But if you're a gentleman and aren't just trying to hook up with a young college girl then maybe. But, then again what do I have to offer a grown man thats been through everything I haven't yet? And a dance is a dance. You can ask for their numbers and see what they say. But every girl is different, some might want to date you.
2006-10-13 09:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by B U Tiful 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman. Some would, most wouldn't. Even at 36, whether or not you look your age will have a lot to do with it. However, women at that age are so conflicted...it would be hard to tell if the girl is really into you, or just dating you as a rite of passage; or dating you to brag to her girls about her older man or worse, dating you for your money or something else you can give her that a guy her age can't (that includes good sex...). Regardless of age, find a woman you connect with, and who is mature enough to have a relationship with you, if that's what you're looking for. If you're just looking for sex...then, go for the college clubbies.
2006-10-13 09:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would really depend on the girl. People will say that women who date older guys are shallow because they're just golddiggers. Evolutionarily speaking though, men are attracted to young, attractive, fertile females. Women on the other hand, are attracted to older, more financially secure men who can take care of them. When menstruating though, women tend to opt more for the best genes, and are attracted to younger, more attractive looking men. At least this is what I learned in psych class. As for me.... I wouldn't let a 36 year old guy grind against me and I sure wouldn't date him... I think it's a little creepy. I think girls who let you dance with them are probably just a little tipsy and trying to have a fun night with their friends...I wouldn't interpret it as much more. Sorry.
2006-10-13 10:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by deepwaters05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think older men are way sexier. It's hard to say for all women but I know that from my own experience, older men are more secure. Waaaaay better in bed and you don't have to babysit them. Besides my old man is 35 and I'm 24. I love it that I'm valued for me and not just some trophy. Watch body language and maybe bring a female friend to scope things out for you. You'd be amazed what women pick up that men don't. Age is in the eye of the beholder. If you don't try you will never know.
2006-10-13 10:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by grease 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You just have to be more aggressive with these girls. That's all they're used to. I'm not saying stalk or rape or beat them, but you've got to be more assertive and persistant. If you really hate playing the game, don't bother with the girls. If you enjoy playing the game, enjoy dying a thousand times when she says no and think the sun rises whenever she says yes, then by all means, play the game. It makes you feel alive. The only thing I can warn you of, though, if you do get one of these young girls, you should realize the responsibility you've got in taking part in their lives. You're much older, more experienced, so if you get involved with one of these girls, you've got some responsibility in being even more of a gentleman.
2006-10-13 10:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, high school girls like older guys(only about 18, 19 though) not really college girls. These girls in the clubs are only teasing you so maybe you will buy them a drink, and spend money on them. None of them would seriously date you. Even if one said that they would, they would cheat on you within the week. Date someone mature and that is your own age, and that will love you for you.
2006-10-13 09:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi! I am 22. To be honest young girls like to be with older men, because they feel very safe and comfortable... girls think that an older man has a lot of experience, knowledge, love... everything that boys (I mean their peers) don't have. Sometimes our peers want only fun and sex, but very deep in unconsciousness every girl want to have a husband, children, so college girls just see a real men in you! they feel that you are ready for serious relationship, so they are trying to catch you! good luck
2006-10-13 10:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by Evgenia C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 21 and I have just ended a relationship with a 31 year old. It ended amicably but I think my range is 25- 40. Don't worry about it and just relax it will happen when it is suppose to. IT IS WHAT IT IS. Accept it for that for now. I know it must be hard but it always gets better I assure you.
Cheers darlin
2006-10-13 10:04:29 · answer #9 · answered by scully_22ps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes we do, the reason for most women is the fact you know what you want. See either you have had nothing but serious relationships and just want to have fun or you have had your fun and want to get serious. And Most older men are up front about it and will tell you " I'm just looking for fun" or " I'm tired of playing games and want something serious". Just be honest and yourself don't come off creepy, and don't try to hide your age most young women don't if your nice enough and genuine enough
2006-10-13 10:04:33 · answer #10 · answered by blessnevapet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am 25 and would never look at men younger than myself i always have a laugh and a joke in clubs its all about having a good time i was pritty much the same when in college i do think girls go for older men
2006-10-13 09:59:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋