I was with the guy for about 2 months and it was going great. I thought I was in love. He started acting wierd and I think he was cheating on me. I didn't want to end it but I had to because I couldn't handle the heartache. It's been a few weeks and he is really trying hard to get me back. He talks to all of my friends about me, and they think he's truly changed. They all think I should give him one more chance. What do you think?
2006-10-13 09:40:25 · 15 answers · asked by ♥SO Happy♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all they never change they may improve but they never change. You need to talk to him figure out what happened the first time around but remember who they are is what you fell in love with and if your willing to take him back (which it sounds like you are) then you need to decide if he is good for you if he put in in a lot of pain once then he will probably do it again. May not be intentional but it usually does happen. Just be careful just time and tell him that if things do repeat itself there will be no second chances
2006-10-13 09:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by ask me again 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and try to get to the bottom of why he was acting strange in the first place. At that point, you should decide if it's worth it to give him another chance. If you really want to try it with him again, I say go for it. But if he acts up again, then he's outta there!
2006-10-13 16:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't but I'm not you.
If you do, go slow. Day by day. expect the worst, hope for the best.
Make sure your standards are clear right from the start.
But don't ever take someone back because your friends think its a good idea.
If you want him back you will take him back, end of story.
2006-10-13 16:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by Oh, I see 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to hear your friends opinions but they weren't the ones who were cheated on ..think long and hard if he's honestly worth the possibility of another heartbreak.
2006-10-13 16:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I usually believe in second chances, especially if you never actually caught him cheating. I would have my guard up tho. He was to work to earn your trust back. Any funny business (rumors of seeing him with other girls, women calling his cell, and him not spending much time with you) get out and don't look back.
Make sure he's humble about getting you back and not cocky. If he's humble he feels bad for what happened... if he's cocky he thinks he's a stud for "getting away with it"
2006-10-13 16:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's running game. Why hasn't he come directly to you?
It was only two months, you didn't loose anything, move on.
Going back to someone like him is only going to make things worse. He's probably just trying to get you back so that he can have someone available to him whenever he wants them to be.
If the other girls weren't dumb enough to fall for it, don't you fall for it either.
2006-10-13 16:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by geminig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,regardless of if he was faithful or not he sounds too moody and unstable.If you call trust into question after only 2 mos,it's just not worth it.Good Luck
2006-10-13 16:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by maykithapin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to find out why he was acting "weird". But definitely go with your gut feelings-they're usuaully right.
2006-10-13 16:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by court 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think notu shouldn't get back with him if he really cared about u he wouldn't of cheated on u
2006-10-13 16:45:51 · answer #9 · answered by griffin_alexis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a chance if you are not sure he was cheating. if you are sure he was cheating, then chances are he will do it again
2006-10-13 16:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by Ginna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋