Singles & Dating - 27 September 2006

2006-09-27 08:29:05 · 3 answers · asked by tinkerbell 2

Ok here goes:


I’m 15, this girl is 13: ITS only 2 years

A few months ago, me and this girl were really close, we would talk and flirt all the time, and this went on for a while, well eventually people started talking about us, being so close, and wondered if we were dating. She started backing off big time, and seemed like something was bothering her. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said idk maybe. I took it as a nice way of saying no. Well she told her friends she just doesn’t know, because I’ve liked many different girls b4, and she just want to see if I could stick with her for a while. Well months passed, and we got further and further away. I wondered why? Well she and her mom are REALLY close, so I asked her mom. Her mom said she was just really scared, because we have been friends since age 7. Well then she told her friends she just doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. It got to the point were I couldn’t stand it anymore. So I emailed her this about a month ago


can we please talk??
I've got to tell you something, because, well, i just got to know.
I really like you, alot. And it seemed like you used to like me. But now, it just seems like you are really really trying to avoid me. I mean, i know youve been busy and all with swimmin, but like since carrowinds, we havent talked, barely any , at all. It seems like you just dont care about me. I mean, i feel so confused, because, for some reason, you just stopped talking to me. Why? I mean, are you trying to get me to take the hint? Or what? I mean i really dont know what to think. Tell me anything, tell me that you hate me, just please please be honest. Remember that thing at carrowinds, guys cant stand when girls beat around the bush? Well, if you dont like me, please just tell me straight up. My feelings wont be hurt. And if you do, but just arent sure, just tell me. I wanna be there for you, I want you to be able to trust me, and be able to talk to me, about anything

This is what she replied

hey,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later.





This is what I replied



hey!!. thanks for being honest with me. I really value our friendship too, and if you don’t feel comfortable, because of ruining the friendship if something were to happen, that is cool with me.




Now to me, that sounds like two things (1) she doesn’t want to ruin a friendship, cuz we’ve been friends since age 7 or (2) shes just letting me down easy. But now she is flirting with this other guy, like she used to do with me. But she seems more comfortable around me than she did before. But when she sees that I am not going out of my way to see her, she seems to talk to me more, and flirt a little more, almost like she don’t have me anymore. And sometimes, Ill catch her looking at me, and when I look she’ll look away. And then sometimes, her body language, she just seems sad, like she wants to tell me something, or likes me or IDK what, its just she seems different since we talked about it. But I mean b4 she really seemed to like me, and IDK why she just would have stopped. , I mean I’ve like many girls, just none like this, When I wake up sheds the first think I think about, and the last think when I go to sleep. I just cant let her go.
My question is do you think she was letting me down easy, or is just scared, and what should I do about it? And please don’t tell me I’m too young

2006-09-27 08:26:55 · 13 answers · asked by how many 1

it became pretty tense, we never managed to resolve it, and she decided to get even with me last night. I knew she had a yeast infection, but didn't think much of it until last night, when she got naked and sat on my face while I was sleeping. I awoke to her gyrating on my face, and a mouthfull of yeast. I still feel nautious from it. What should I do?

2006-09-27 08:25:30 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex doesn't do a thing for our boys,but i do allow him to see them "every blue moon "when he pops up....the thing is he often calls me...almost stalks from time to time,constantly calling my cell or home phone ..recently he called me 4 am...my new guy said"do u want me to say something to him"...i waslike no i'll handle him...should i have allowed him to say something or is this me and the ex issue?????? i'll never get back with the ex ...simply never...what should i do????

2006-09-27 08:23:17 · 31 answers · asked by Gemini 3

2006-09-27 08:22:53 · 22 answers · asked by lulu_702 1

2006-09-27 08:22:46 · 12 answers · asked by five2seven0 1

2006-09-27 08:21:55 · 6 answers · asked by monis 2

I recently posted a question explaining how I am always paranoid and worrying about a relationship in which nothing is wrong, but I've figured out the root of my problem....

I get no "re-assurance" from my girlfriend at all. She never tells me she misses me, that she loves me or that she even cares about me. It's not a spiteful thing, that's just how she is...

I was told if I can admit the root of the problem and the reason why I think I worry, I could start fixing it. I've talked to my girlfriend about how she is, but she can't changed (and won't, she's too stubborn!) and I wouldn't want her too anyway. But, I worry a lot because she never tells me how she feels about me and I pelt her with my feelings so it's hard not to worry and get paranoid sometimes.

I really love her and I need to seriously find a way to stop myself from being like this - for my own piece of mind, mostly. I just want to be happy, and I know it's possible... if I can just stop worring about nothing!

2006-09-27 08:21:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

what does it mean?

2006-09-27 08:21:20 · 42 answers · asked by wilkinson_1979 2

2006-09-27 08:19:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i always get realy turned on when a girl looks at my penis. its like the longer she looks at it the harder i get. it turns me on to know that that a girl is checking out what ive got. is this normal?
also dont think that i could turn into a flasher cause im not

2006-09-27 08:18:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

are these sings that he likes me? how do i tell him? im going to a youth group with him today, and i might ask him, but he comes with one of his other friends, so what do i do? these are the signs:
1. he always stares at me
2. he always talks to me
3. he always emails and IMs me
4. he walks me to class alot
5. he always encourages me
6.and he always smiles at me
7.he always says hi

2006-09-27 08:18:29 · 6 answers · asked by cubs_gurl_25 1

What do you think is a good height diffrence between couples? if possiable also what do you think is the greatest diffrence there should be?

2006-09-27 08:17:50 · 34 answers · asked by *Shruti* 2

2006-09-27 08:15:56 · 28 answers · asked by sexychick 1

If your grlfrnd is really pretty, do you look at her as a trophy? Do you flaunt what you have in front of other guys or your friends b/c they dont have what you got?

2006-09-27 08:14:31 · 31 answers · asked by not-really-me V 1

2006-09-27 08:13:36 · 21 answers · asked by Richy455 1

OK, I dated a guy for a few weeks, and fell head over heels. He then got an offer for his dream job about 2 hours away. I didn't want to "shack up" with him that early in the relationship, so I told him to give me a few months and we'd see after that. Meanwhile, I still wanted to keep in touch and even visit each other as we could. Well, the job kept him busy, and we only got to communicate about every couple of weeks, and declined in frequency. Last year he arranged for me to visit, but then had to cancel at the last minute. We've still been talking about once a month, but the emotions to say the least have cooled. This year, he's invited me up again, but he had to postphone the visit by a day because of his work again. I keep asking why he doesn't call or email more often and he just says he's busy. Since he's postphoned this visit, I've told him it's over. If he isn't going to make time for me I need to move on. Haven't I been more than patient on him to make time for me?

2006-09-27 08:12:45 · 16 answers · asked by heartswind 1

how do i get this girl to stop liking me? any advice

2006-09-27 08:12:23 · 16 answers · asked by Ima 1

Seems to me he should beat his wife silly.

2006-09-27 08:12:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can i say this with out sounding sick but here it is. I have a thing for dildos the bigger the better. The biggest one i have is 13 inches around. Does anyone know where i can get any bigger one's? I don't ever plan on getting married or having a boy friend so no poblem there.

2006-09-27 08:11:55 · 7 answers · asked by Jessie 2

I have a friends wedding coming up and need a date. I really am not looking for a steady boyfriend or anything right now. So how can I ask someone without him getting the wrong idea.

2006-09-27 08:10:44 · 15 answers · asked by smurf 1

Okay, so I have been dating this guy for awhile now good kissing and sex is important to me.
Well he's not a very good kisser and not too bad in bed, and i have been trying slowly to help him out a little with the kissing and i tried to mention something one night and he looked really worried and asked me if he was good at kissing, and i didnt have the heart to say it so i just kinda said yeah and changed the subject. He is a sweet guy and I like him, but sexually an kissing he is just not picking up the hints... I try to throw out jokingly that i like it rough and being tossed around a lil bit... and he wants to know why I never "BIG O" but I dont want to crush his "man ego" or intimidate him too drastically.

I don't want to just come out and say let me teach you how to kiss, or I want you to pull my hair and talk dirty to me in bed and maybe work on some other things...

So how do you approach that conversation with a guy?

2006-09-27 08:10:38 · 12 answers · asked by BeachLvr2006 3

I'm out of a realstionship 4 1/2 yrs, emotionally less than two. I've a lovely 8 yr old with him and we don't see him that often, I keep it at a detached distance. I can be lonely but I really can't be bothered to look for anyone and when I do meet someone I find attractive I have the relationship over in my head before its even started and tell myself no point starting it? I am confused!!

2006-09-27 08:10:19 · 7 answers · asked by kildarababe 2

2006-09-27 08:09:02 · 9 answers · asked by snowfoxx71 3

ok so if a girl is three weeks late...what is the probability that she is pregnant? or can girls just be this late sometimes? please give me info on this...my friend wants to know

2006-09-27 08:08:45 · 21 answers · asked by The Phoenix Wears Armani 1

when u guys had your first kiss did u think about it for a week? did u always crave it more? not necessarily by the same guy..but just the feeling again? is this normal for me to feel lol?

2006-09-27 08:08:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I are TOTALLY goofy when we are alone together. Behind closed doors we sing silly songs in silly voices, make funny faces, roll around on the ground, dance about crazily and otherwise act like total nutjobs.

I mean, we act normal as well, and have normal couple time - snuggling on the couch and talking about eachother's day, cooking together, etc.

But when we get in a silly mood, we are insanely goofy. So much so, that we even stop the silliness sometimes and say out loud , "What is wrong with us? We're so odd!" He nor I would ever behave this way except around eachother,so I'm just curious if anyone else does this.

Alone together, do you and your significant other behave in a way you'd never behave in public?

2006-09-27 08:06:53 · 34 answers · asked by wendyshannon 3

I met this guy like 2 weeks ago and we went on a date and i thought it went great! We had good chemistry and i think he felt that too, his birthday is coming up and i want to do something special something different that he will never forget and maybe start a relationship. What can i do? I need ADVICE!!!!!!

2006-09-27 08:06:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a man knows that a woman really enjoys his sex do they withhold it from you intentionally to play mind games?

2006-09-27 08:06:20 · 2 answers · asked by stella 2

as a 'home wrecker'. Shes not the one who wrecked the home, it was the husband who wrecked it, or the wife that made him do it in the first place. Tell me....

2006-09-27 08:05:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous