I recently posted a question explaining how I am always paranoid and worrying about a relationship in which nothing is wrong, but I've figured out the root of my problem....
I get no "re-assurance" from my girlfriend at all. She never tells me she misses me, that she loves me or that she even cares about me. It's not a spiteful thing, that's just how she is...
I was told if I can admit the root of the problem and the reason why I think I worry, I could start fixing it. I've talked to my girlfriend about how she is, but she can't changed (and won't, she's too stubborn!) and I wouldn't want her too anyway. But, I worry a lot because she never tells me how she feels about me and I pelt her with my feelings so it's hard not to worry and get paranoid sometimes.
I really love her and I need to seriously find a way to stop myself from being like this - for my own piece of mind, mostly. I just want to be happy, and I know it's possible... if I can just stop worring about nothing!
2006-09-27 08:21:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have more confidence in yourself. Perhaps when you seem happy with yourself then she will start telling you. These insecurities are not good for the relationship. Just enjoy what you have with her. Good luck!
2006-09-27 08:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she never tells you that she loves you then how do you know she does. A girl doesn't have to tell you all the time but every once in a great while she should. If I had a boyfriend i would tell him that i loved him everyday. I really think that you should move on to someone more suited for you.
2006-09-27 15:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by smurf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get some self confidence. If you love her, and you know she loves you then don't worry about it. She probably has other ways of expressing her love for you besides words, everytime she does something nice for you that's her reassurance. And if she never does anything nice for you then get rid of her, because what kind of relationship would that be?
2006-09-27 15:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop acting like a freaking chick and find something else in your life you can find assurance in.
2006-09-27 15:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe it is time to move on
2006-09-27 15:25:42 · answer #5 · answered by DontHateMeCauzImBeeUteeFull 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have positive thinking.
2006-09-27 15:25:36 · answer #6 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋