It's like I learn something new about my man everyday. Today, he made the comment about how it's wrong for a woman to send her husband to jail. He said he has a coworker, whose wife called the police on him because he hit her, & he had to stay in jail for the weekend. My bf seems to feel that how can you say you love someone,& be married to them,& then do something like that which could go on their record? I told him that the husband had no reason to put his hands on his wife, unless she attacked him first&it was self defense. Apparently, the two of them got into an argument,& she ended up yelling&cursing him....that's why the husband hit her. My bf feels this was justified, because people can only take so much yelling&cursing! WHAT? So, I asked him if he were an abuser,& he had the nerve to say he is not an abuser, but a "corrector." I asked what the wife should have done,&he said, just kept quiet to allow cool down time. He was totally serious. Should I hear alarm bells?
2006-09-27
09:58:53
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