Singles & Dating - 25 September 2006

I have this older guy friend of mine. We have been friends for about 8 years now. And up until a little over a month ago, that's all it's been. We have gotten really close and have seen eachother more often. He's 25+ years older than me. We are both adults. I guess what I am looking for is permission to see him?? Does society accept that these days?? is it wrong (morally, ethically) for a younger girl to be with a much older man?? Does age really matter? Thanks

2006-09-25 10:51:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

http://www.geocities.com/justiceparadigm/presex.pdf

After viewing this the whole concept of marriage seems like a broken institution. Should we just outlaw marriage altogether...I mean it seems today a very large majority is just concerned with premarital sex...why just not live together and commit sin openly? Why destroy the sacred concept of marriage with lust?

2006-09-25 10:47:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i figure since im breakin up wit my boy, i should find somethin alot better anyone out there 18-24 black tall dude, and cute?...lol haha

2006-09-25 10:46:07 · 6 answers · asked by babiluv 3

I don't know wher eyou would find a good olooking guy and more to be attracted to his personality .. Where is the man of my dreams?..lol..
I couldn't pick up omeone from a bar/pub/club?... I don't think it's right unless you just want a one night stand?.. Where would you look to meet a guy ?

2006-09-25 10:45:21 · 22 answers · asked by Melanie R 1

My BF of 4 years is a touchy kind of guy so he thinks it's ok to touch people (like waitresses). He is genuinely nice and people like him, male and female.
We've had an argument before about this before, and another last night. He put his hand on a waitress's shoulder to order something when we were at the bar together. It was tame, not creepy or anything, but still.
The waitress is totally friendly with bot of us (I like her, she is a sweetie, remembers my name, etc) and we've gone to the place like 10 times over a year, but she is not a friend, etc.
Anyway, I gave my boyfriend a hard time over this (over-reacting?). I am not jealous or questioning his motives, just think it's innapropriate.

PS. He is always affectionate to me in public and the waitress is not very pretty... if it matters ;)
Oh yeah - he has a history of cheating/touching other females *in front fo me as well as behind my back*.
Thoughts?

2006-09-25 10:44:18 · 25 answers · asked by eurogirl 1

I guess what I'm getting at is... why is it that the very people who single people out, isolate them, and hurt them to the point that they simply close down, feel that they can then blame the person for being antisocial? Thats kind of like blaming a rape victim for being raped.
I am also asking for the people who judge the antisocial people as being untrust worthy... wake the hell up!!! Not everyone becomes antisocial for the same reason but a good portion do. If for only one moment, try, just try to understand why someone who is quiet and/or antisocial, try to understand why, show a little compassion and let them know their not alone. Try seeing the world through their eyes and maybe you'll have a better understanding. You may infact learn something new about them.

2006-09-25 10:44:18 · 6 answers · asked by Steven B 1

One time I was talking to this guy and he said I was intimidating b/c I was so smart. I have heard that from other people too. I have alot of guy friends but those who are not my " friends" are intimidated by me. I really dont try to be intimidating, I just appear that way to some people. Are there any ways could seem less in imidating?

2006-09-25 10:41:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I s there a difference of loving someone and being in love with someone?

2006-09-25 10:40:49 · 22 answers · asked by *LaDy C* 1

I met in guy in person over the weekend we had been talking on the phone for a month. (met online first). We spend all weekend together in his town and really liked each other. but his not calling. could it be that he is not interested anymore. or maybe he is too busy at work? (he had told me he had a deadline to meet today monday) But I'm afraid he doesn't want to call me. I sent a text earlier today and he didn't reply. should I give him more time, maybe he calls tonight? am I getting obsessed?

2006-09-25 10:40:10 · 10 answers · asked by needsuggestions 1

2006-09-25 10:40:02 · 10 answers · asked by Lil Ms. 1

2006-09-25 10:39:32 · 7 answers · asked by mdiamond66 1

2006-09-25 10:38:18 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this guy I find really hot. We're good friends but I feel more for him than that. How do I go about it? I don't want to appear a s**t or ruin our friendship. Do you think there's a chance he already knows I'm attracted to him? I haven't really done anything too obvious, except wanting to be around him a lot more.

2006-09-25 10:38:17 · 11 answers · asked by damselville 2

I have been antisocial for sense I was eight years old, I am no 21 and it has been only recently that I've finally started to break out of my old life style.
I wasn't antisocial because I chose to be, that happend because of my families way of living. I grew up an Army brat, sense I was born (I appologize in advance for any misspellings) into it. As an unfortunate consequence, I moved around my whole life. So I grew up not trying to fit in with everyone because I was always rejected, singled out, no one regardless of how hard I tried would give me a chance.
It is so frustrating to have so many people judge us because we have not been social. That doesnt happen on its own, being alienated does not exactly help.
Then there are those of you who claim that its the antisocial ones who take advantage of people. No, thats just a way of pointing blame at someone other then the one(s) responsible.
I only ask that you don't judge us all harshly, try seeing the world through our eyes.

2006-09-25 10:37:27 · 9 answers · asked by Steven B 1

2006-09-25 10:37:25 · 16 answers · asked by martystoyanov 2

as from the start of our relationship. And other times I feel the glove isn't the right fit. Is that a myth....or could she have another partner I don't know about

2006-09-25 10:37:22 · 5 answers · asked by sailor28_1998 1

2006-09-25 10:34:48 · 9 answers · asked by babyhotgurl2002 1

what is the hottest thing to you that a girl does?

2006-09-25 10:34:18 · 21 answers · asked by Tbaby 2

i just now realized i love my bestfriend and i know he likes me , but now is too late to start a relationship coz im moving to rome ny . and i think i love him to the point that i might give him some !!! but now he has a gf and i am extremly jeleous , and i always thought he would always be mine if i wanted him but the fact that he now has a gf im sorta , wait no i am really jealous !!
i think im in love w/ him and he said he would break up w/ his gf for me but i dont want them to break up coz im movin in november !!! but i really do hate this chick hes goin o/w !!! should i cause them to break up ??? or should i get ova this jealousy and accept the fact that my best friend ive ever had is goin to be hurt sme day by the chick hes dating , coz she is litterally a SLUT !!!

2006-09-25 10:33:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-25 10:32:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok, so I am buying a new mountain bike and I need you guys input on which one. I have to choose from the... Thanks, really, for everyones help I can't dicide

'07 Hardrock Pro Disc
'06 RockHopper Pro Disc
'05 Specialized FSR XC
'07 RockHopper Comp Disc

Here are the specifications of each bike...

2006 Specialized Rockhopper Pro Disc

Frame: A1 Premium Aluminum
Fork: Marzocchi Drop OFF Comp, 130mm-travel
Rims/Wheels: Sun SingleTrack
Hubs Front: Specialized disc; Rear: Shimano M-475 disc
Spokes: Stainless-steel
Tires: Specialized Enduro, 26 x 2.3
Crankset: TruVativ Blaze
Chainwheel: 32/22 w/bash guard
Front Derailleur: Shimano Deore
Rear Derailleur: Shimano Deore LX
Rear Cogs: Shimano HG50, 9-speed: 11-34
Shifters: Shimano Deore SL
Handlebars: Aluminum riser, 31.8mm
Tape/Grips: Specialized double-density Kraton
Stem: TruVativ XR
Brake Levers: Avid FR-5
Brakes: Avid BB5, mechanical disc
Pedals: Aluminum platform
Saddle: Specialized Body Geometry Sport MTB
Seat Post: Aluminum, micro-adjustable
Seat Binder: Aluminum quick-release


2007 Specialized Hardrock Pro Disc

Frame: Specialized A1 Premium aluminum w/O.R.E. technology
Fork: Marzocchi MZ Race LO, 100mm-travel w/lockout
Rims/Wheels: Specialized/Alex
Hubs Front: Specialized Hi Lo disc; Rear: Shimano M475 disc
Spokes: 14-gauge stainless-steel
Tires: Specialized Resolution, 26 x 2.1
Crankset: Shimano
Chainwheel: 44/32/22
Front Derailleur: Shimano Deore
Rear Derailleur: SRAM SX-5
Rear Cogs: Shimano HG50, 9-speed: 11-34
Shifters: SRAM SX-5 Trigger
Handlebars: Aluminum, 31.8mm
Tape/Grips: Specialized Enduro double-density Kraton
Stem: Specialized 3D forged-aluminum
Brake Levers: Hayes Sole
Brakes: Hayes Sole, hydraulic disc, 6-inch rotors
Pedals: Specialized aluminum platform
Saddle: Specialized Body Geometry ATB
Seat Post: Aluminum, micro-adjustable


2007 Specialized Rockhopper Comp Disc

Frame: Specialized A1 Premium aluminum w/O.R.E. technology
Fork: RockShox Tora 302 SL, 100mm-travel
Rims/Wheels: Specialized/Alex
Hubs: Specialized Hi Lo disc
Spokes: 15-gauge stainless-steel
Tires: Specialized Fast Trak, 26 x 2.0
Crankset: Shimano
Chainwheel: 44/32/22
Front Derailleur: Shimano Deore
Rear Derailleur: Shimano Deore
Rear Cogs: Shimano HG50, 9-speed: 11-34
Shifters: Shimano Deore
Handlebars: Aluminum riser
Tape/Grips: Specialized Enduro
Stem: Specialized 3D forged-aluminum
Brake Levers: Avid FR-5
Brakes: Avid BB5, mechanical disc, 6-inch rotors
Pedals: Specialized Aluminum
Saddle: Specialized Body Geometry MTB
Seat Post: Specialized aluminum


2005 Specialized FSR XC

Frame: A1-aluminum, FSR technology
Fork: Manitou Axel Comp 100mm-travel
Headset: Aluminum
Rear Shock: X-Fusion air
Rims/Wheels: Aluminum
Hubs Front: Stout Disc; Rear: Shimano Disc
Tires: Specialized Adrenaline, 26 x 2.0
Crankset: Shimano, square taper
Chainwheel: 44/32/22
Chain: Shimano
Front Derailleur: Shimano Deore
Rear Derailleur: Shimano LX
Rear Cogs: Shimano Deore LX, 9-speed: 11-34
Shifters: Shimano Deore
Handlebars: XC low-rise
Tape/Grips: MTB double-density Kraton
Stem: 3D forged-aluminum, 6-degree rise
Brake Levers: Shimano
Brakes: Linear-pull, aluminum
Pedals: Aluminum platform
Saddle: Body Geometry, dual-density base, steel rails
Seat Post: Aluminum
Seat Binder: Aluminum quick-release

2006-09-25 10:32:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-25 10:31:20 · 17 answers · asked by i luv u doug 2

Well I wanna break up with my bf, some of things he does just really makes me mad, I can't see myself, being with him in the future I think I messed up and didnt end when I was supposed to, because now its harder than I thought...he so immature sometime and hes not on the same level with me, sometimes he acts so close minded... im just tired and wanna explore my options, but its hard cuz I kno I still love him... sorta lol

2006-09-25 10:31:07 · 24 answers · asked by babiluv 3

When ever a guy complements the way i look or something i can't help but turn red...

2006-09-25 10:30:45 · 22 answers · asked by †ᴰᴲᵛᴵᴸ† 5

PLEASE! I have this girlfriand that I want to break up w/ but I need to let it down as calmly as possible (I'm on my sister's name). And I prefer to do it tomorrow, but the WORSE thing is, is that tomorrow is our 6th mnth of dating... WHAT DO I DO !?!?

2006-09-25 10:30:40 · 8 answers · asked by EMO cupcake 4

2006-09-25 10:30:30 · 2 answers · asked by Josiee (: 2

here is the problem. i like the three guys that i think like me, but im not shure who to ask out to go to the dance on friday.one is a tough guy who gets into alot of fights,and i like him the most.should i ask him or one of the other two.please help me!!

2006-09-25 10:30:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ther's is this extremely beautiful girl that i like and i know that she likes me to. But everytime i try to ask her out i back down because i get way to nervous.

And to make it worse she is nervous and does not think that she is beautiful and her being nervous makes me even more nervous

2006-09-25 10:29:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

We went out the other nite after a football game to a local bar. I felt like we were in a meat market. I dont want to sound crude, but he has a very good job and so do I. We are in a very small community and these women were in short acting desperate for his attention. Some guy came behind me and rubbed my rear end with his hand which was not needed. I dont want to start getting into this bar scene. Am I being a prude? Sometimes I think because of our financial situation, people want to get a little too chummy and hook onto the money. He did not respond in any way to the advances nor did I, but he thought it was fun. I was uncomfortable.

2006-09-25 10:28:55 · 17 answers · asked by happydawg 6

i have this guy friend and i think i like him a whole lot
and i dont know if he likes me like that but he stares at me alot during gym and we get along very well. what should i do????????

2006-09-25 10:28:18 · 11 answers · asked by vane 2