Ther's is this extremely beautiful girl that i like and i know that she likes me to. But everytime i try to ask her out i back down because i get way to nervous.
And to make it worse she is nervous and does not think that she is beautiful and her being nervous makes me even more nervous
2006-09-25 10:29:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like a good match if one of you can find a way to break the ice.
2006-09-25 10:33:14 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very sweet.
If you're pretty certain she likes you, but is shy...you just need to step up.
It's not as hard as you think. I'm sure to talk to other girls and you talk to your friends. There really isn't a big difference.
Worst case scenario, you ask and she says no. You're right where you started. Nothing lost.
If you like her, just tell her. I'm sure she'll respond in a positive manner.
Remember, nothing ventured, nothing gained. You'll never get a date, if you don't ask.
Good luck
2006-09-25 10:34:36 · answer #2 · answered by Toybear_mav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will realize at somepoint that you have this life to live. Wishing it away...what will that get you. What if tomorow she is gone...you would wish and wish and wish you were strong enough to rise above you anxiety and live. You have nothing to loose by trying and everything to loose by not. Keep telling yourself that and you will only have one choice...DO IT. Step out side of yourself and be what you know you can be insead of spending everyday and I am sure every night thinking about her...spend that next day making it happen. You can and you know you can. Stop it and do it.
2006-09-25 10:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by givemeprivacy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM WITH HOT GUYS, I GET TOTALLY NERVOUS AND CAN'T LOOK THEM IN THE EYE. I THINK A LOT HAS TO DO WITH A LACK OF CONFIDENCE, BUT RECENTLY I WAS AT A CLUB (I HAD A FEW DRINKS SO THAT HELPED) AND I JUST DECIDED SCREW IT, I WALKED UP TO THIS TOTALLY GORGEOUS BOY AND WAS LIKE WHATS UP? HE ACTUALLY GAVE ME HIS PHONE # SO IT WORKED OUT. I SAY YOU GOTTA JUST GO FOR IT, ESPECIALLY IF YOU ALREADY KNOW SHE LIKES YOU, WHAT HAVE YOU GOT TO LOSE?
2006-09-25 10:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by CHERYL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW well make the 1st move and ask her if she wants to go out to the movies since she likes you too why not go for it good luck !!
2006-09-25 10:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason for that is because you are not confident enough, and yes, i guess you are ugly. you name yourself the sax player, yeah go and play the sax alone and live with that for the rest of your life if you wish, beautiful girls are nothing, but beautiful and intelligent girls who has a kind nature is rare (i am talking about myself)
2006-09-25 10:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by lippy19850528 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are a social phobic person , PAXIL can help you , but at first go to a psyciatrist..
2016-03-27 09:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of her as a 'human' doing her daily business on the toilet just like the rest of us :),maybe that's gross but sure does help me in such situations hehe
2006-09-25 10:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by I-C-U 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a band geek, I must submit my thoughts.
Just buck up, and do it. Nothing else will make it easier.
Nike.
Just do it.
(Or someone else'll beat you to it)
2006-09-25 10:33:27 · answer #9 · answered by Captain Moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on something else.
2006-09-25 10:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋