2006-09-25 10:38:18 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you want to? Cheater have a history and they will repeat the process again and you will be hurt more. Please cut your strings and move on, there is a better life out there, just go looking.
Good Luck to you.
2006-09-25 10:41:09 · answer #1 · answered by loser 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I would be gone way before the words "long time" could be applied.
I have a question for you....why would you want to forgive someone who has been unfaithful for a long time?
2006-09-25 10:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by Toybear_mav 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends... Was it his first time? If it was and he realizes he was wrong than maybe... It is really hard to get trust back, once it's broken. Your partner has to be willing to do whatever it takes to win your trust back and do whatever it takes to make your relationship work....
However, whether or not you stay with him/her, you should learn to forgive... Not for him/her, but for yourself, so that you are able to move on.... You don't want to hold on to that, and then become bitter.... Life is too short. Try to enjoy every minute, just learn from your experiences, make everything into a positive as best as you can... You feel better about life, things and it will help you not to put everyone else in the same category...
Best of luck and God Bless!
2006-09-25 11:01:10 · answer #3 · answered by Torres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if they were only unfaithful one time, but if they were unfaithful for a long time then hell no because that just shows they could care less about your feelings
2006-09-25 10:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on circumstances..
1. how long you have been together
2. how many times he had been unfaithful
3. how long he had been unfaithful
4. if he/she had children with the other person
5. if i really really loved them and not just scared of being on my own.
6. why they done it in the first place
7. if you had children together
I think if i really loved them i would be i would never ever forget and it would take along time to forgive but i would be prepared to try to resolve and make the partnership work.
2006-09-25 11:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by confused 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to think that I wouldn't, but I guess it depends. Still in love??? If so, the forgiveness is possible... to forgive but not to forget...
2006-09-25 11:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by prahmedio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never forgive but you will learn to accept. It will always be there in your mind no matter how strong the relationship grows.
2006-09-25 11:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by Tabbyfur aka patchy puss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would not, but maybe your a more understanding person than i am. i would no longer have trust in this person . once the trust in a relationship has gone there is nothing left.
sorry i don't think this is probably the answer your looking for.
2006-09-25 11:03:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once yes mayb forgive them but more than once no way get out of that situation it is nit healthy for you you are worth more than that he/she does not love you and you deserve more respect than to b treated like dirt
2006-09-25 11:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by sexy cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No everytime you sleep with him or her it would be in the back of your mind
unless it would break the childrens hearts and then could you put up with it untill they are up
2006-09-25 10:46:53 · answer #10 · answered by jodu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋